Therapists review your past to offer advice about present problems. A
Soulwork Coach offers little advice; instead coaching you to
explore what you really want and how to get it.
Religious counseling may guide you to have faith and follow rules.
Relationship Coaching coaches you to act with integrity - appropriate to your
circumstances.
Systemic Coaching focuses on your concrete goals AND on long term consequences. This
reduces the possibility of dependence between clients and coaches. Between
sessions, a client feels generally better than before coaching. Partners are
included, through information or couple coaching. Soulwork focuses on
improving ALL relationships.
A Soulwork Coach is a Stretch - not a Shrink! Therapists often
address isolated issues. Soulwork coaches you to connect and make
right all parts of your life. Your happiness and suffering, your health and
your sickness, reflect your lifestyle and relationship habits.
Consultants use their experience to
give you advice about specific problems. They are expected to analyze
problems and supply detailed solutions for resolving them. They gather facts
to support proposals and may implement their proposals in direct
intervention.
All parts of your life are connected. Dull jobs or joyful
careers are by-products of your life, as are depression or happiness.
Soulwork integrates cognitive thinking, emotional feeling and
human relating
to help you achieve your goals. A Soulwork Coach coaches you to
define your goals, and to find and use your resources.
Systemic Coaching is preventative and remedial. It is as
practical as any coaching and as deep as any psychotherapy. It offers
clarity and strategies for people who cannot cope with life challenges -
Soulwork is truly a luxury!
Theoretical explanations and short-term symptom alleviation are easy to
produce, and this is all that many therapists offer. Systemic
Coaching focuses on your
long-term goals, your success. Soulwork coaches you to recognize, accept and
dissolve whatever blocks you from your success, through your
ups and downs of life, towards your chosen goals. When you
attain your goals – that is YOUR success - not ours!
Soulwork Systemic Coaching offers systemic reorientation for individuals, partners,
teams and families. We can coach you to:
- Clarify your relationships and resolve guilt
- Define your success and dissolve conflicts
- Find integrity and avoid
symptoms of disintegration
- Dissolve or control mental and
relationship disease symptoms
- Transform your limiting beliefs into freedom
- Transform your trauma into motivation
- Build lifelong inspiration and your "sense of life"
Soulwork coaches you to reach your goals, while exploring your motivation,
your inspiration and the consequences of your decisions. Some learn
Soulwork for pleasure, some to enhance their knowledge and careers, and some want
to change career to become a professional coach.
Systemic Coaching is not hypnosis, psychoanalysis, new age nor NLP. We offer no
cognitive, esoteric or intuitive fixes!
Instead we offer you warm human contact and an integrated approach to your
development. We gently and firmly help you sort out your most entangled
relationships and we can provocatively support you to use your personal
genius. We can coach you to define and achieve your goals using both your
conscious and unconscious resources, and we can coach you to fulfill your
chosen responsibilities.
We offer you coaching and mentorship. We offer you professional training in
Soulwork Systemic Coaching - and we offer a series of experiences of
transformation.
A coach normally arranges face-to-face meetings with you and may offer to
coach you on some topics by email, telephone or internet chat. A personal Soulwork
session typically lasts one or two hours. Although many people achieve
significant results in a few hours, long-term resolution of typical complaints require between 10
and 50 hours coaching, with an "average" time of about 24 hours. Soulwork
Systemic Coaching can be in a session or two each week or on whole
days dedicated to you.
You can visit a coach, or bring a coach to you. This is often
cost-effective for coaching
families, teams or
people who cannot travel.
Start by comparing your desires and deadlines with
your coach's time and skills, with brief goal and relationship diagnosis. You commit to
honesty and to clarifying your issues. Your coach will commit to
exploring ways for you to fulfill your goals. You and your coach work
together to find and build your success in your relationships, career,
finances etc. (Many Soulwork Coaches specialize in certain relationships or in
certain symptoms. Many Soulwork Coaches are medical
doctors, psychologists, professors and other professionals.)
Chronic medical or emotional symptoms may be connected to depression, addictions, obsessions,
psychosomatic reactions and other relationship problems. Dissolving your symptoms helps
you recover your lost or forgotten qualities, and provides you
with resources and strategies for your success and other life challenges.
We explore your goals, their consequences and any
hesitations that you may have about your goals. We help you use your
objections to enrich and define your goals. (Objections often expose
partnership issues, which we can resolve in
couple coaching.)
Soulwork sessions end with a review of your accomplishments and steps that you
agree to take. In subsequent sessions we help you review your steps and your
results.
Soulwork is faster for young people and for people with clear relationships.
It is faster for people who have solid long-term goals and high motivation
to reach them. Soulwork is faster for people who start coaching before
symptoms become degenerative or addictive.
Your success is limited or inspired by your relationships! If you feel
that one or more of your relationships are somehow wrong, or that your
life should be happier or that you want to create your life differently,
then Soulwork Systemic Coaching can help you. However – YOU must be accountable for your actions and
your responsibilities. Happiness is reserved for people who choose
to live their own lives.
Your long term success requires clear relationships, fulfilling lives,
and concrete, meaningful goals. Symptoms provide a barometer – a tool for
measuring disturbance in your life. If you have severe mental instability or severe physical symptoms;
get
clinical evaluation and treatment before Soulwork Systemic Coaching.
Soulwork Training is for mature and emotionally stable
people. It is not for the irresponsible and immature.
For your long-term success, Soulwork helps you dissolve or control your mental, emotional
and physical symptoms. This helps you recover your life energy and provides ongoing
direction and motivation for you to define and fulfill your life goals.
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Your success in enjoying relationships usually requires your honesty,
candor, humor and responsibility. Your family traditions, your history and
your role models limit or inspire your
relationship behavior! If you cannot find peace and
clarity as a family member, as a friend, as a
team member, as a partner or
as a parent, then Relationship Coaching can help you.
Generally, Soulwork does not solve your problems.
That's a role for social workers. Nor is Soulwork
authoritative about why people have problems. That's for
psychologists. Nor do we manage emotions with medication.
That's for psychiatrists. Nor endless philosophy - that's for gurus
Soulwork solves whatever stops you solving your own problems.
Are you willing to accept your family traditions, your past
actions, your disease symptoms and your relationship responsibilities. After
accepting them - you can change them!
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Career success usually requires relationship skills. Regardless of your
knowledge or expertise, without relationship skills, you may find yourself
alienated by your colleagues and passed over in promotions. If company
policies, your career history and / or your role models limit your
professional development, then Relationship Coaching can help you.
However – you must be motivated to change, which may require that you dissolve old
bonds and trauma, learn new skills and find inspirational mentors.
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Organizations may succeed despite internal chaos. CEOs, owners, founders and
managers often create management and relationship structures that represent
or replace their families. This structure "feels right" regardless of its
effectiveness. Many "Corporate Cultures" have similar qualities to
cults. The stress can destroy both corporate and individual
health.
If you perceive that you and your colleagues can achieve much more
with improved relationship skills, then Relationship Coaching can coach you use
team and leadership skills, while coaching your organization improve
management skills.
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To benefit from Soulwork, email us
for names of Soulwork Coaches in various social and ethnic backgrounds. Soulwork
coaches include medical doctors, lawyers, psychologists, artists, teachers,
wilderness trainers, business people and other professionals. Together or
apart, we offer a wide range of coaching skills.
Soulwork coaching also includes skills in parenting, grand-parenting and family
problems ranging from adoption issues to zany behavior.
A Soulwork coach can explore your needs and your resources. A Soulwork Coach
may offer free first email sessions or telephone
sessions so that you can explore the first step of Soulwork at our expense
and risk.
Mention your city and goals, and we will suggest a coach.
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We accept emotionally stable, friendly people. We strive to make each class a
cross-cultural experience, to enrich all our perceptions with the diversity of
your experience.
Your attitude is more important than your education! Do you finish what you
start? Are you determined, committed, and willing to learn? Are you friendly
and co-operative? Are you self-controlled - can you "stay adult" in
stressful situations?
Some successful coaches have few academic qualifications and some have
advanced university degrees. All have a talent for friendly, supportive
communication. If you are more interested in people than in
things, you are ready. If you also want to offer an essential community
service, you are nearly here.
Soulwork training will open your Pandora's Box. We first help you gain a
basic understanding of your relationships. Soulwork training
is demanding, but not difficult. Our strongest request may be for you to
accept the world-as-it-is, and to recognize what can be changed; rather than
clinging to victim-like or egoistic illusions. Each step of changework is
repeatedly demonstrated (and, where possible, demonstrated with people who
do not know what to expect) and each step is practiced and experienced.
You can learn very quickly this way.
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Martyn Carruthers developed an overall philosophy for change, with
unique and innovative techniques and training programs, starting in 1988. He
integrated his background in emergency management and adult education with
accelerated learning, systemic family therapy, consulting, expert
modeling and success coaching. He first applied this
synthesis to help people learn more efficiently. Later, he applied it to accelerate the healing of emotional
complaints and physical symptoms.
This lead to a practical understanding of the inter-connections between
mental, emotional and physical disease,
emotions and the challenges of relationships.
Soulwork Systemic Coaching offers skills that have been fine-tuned during
hundreds of sessions. During these sessions we explored the basis of
long-term and short-term change. We learned to quickly recognize and effectively resolve relationship
issues and their effects, including learning disabilities,
depression,
obsessions, addictions, chaotic families,
psychosomatic disease and stressful work relationships.
Soulwork is both preventative and remedial. It helps predict
and prevent your potential mental, physical and relationship disease, and it offers ways for
you to control
your symptoms. Soulwork offers proven strategies that can help you cope with life
challenges, and accelerate happiness and success.
Martyn Carruthers continues to develop and refine Relationship Coaching, and to
increase its efficiency in relationship management, strategic planning and organizational
development.
For the origin of Relationship Coaching, see [
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Most of our training is in 5-day segments.
Segments contain information that can be used in conjunction with
other segments, or as a stand-alone course.
(Soulwork Essentials training has
3 segments, and Advanced systemic coaching offers an additional 5 segments. Allow a
further 100 hours for home study, practical assignments and assessments.
Beware people who offer Soulwork training ... check with us about a
trainer's competence.
Advanced Soulwork Training provides you with a strong foundation
for private practice. Your learning continues through workshops, seminars,
updates and coach networks.
Summary:
If you want quality systemic coaching or training, email us. Your
effort determines your development.
You will receive the focused attention, experience and
empathy of a graduate Soulwork coach. You can accelerate achieving your
goals with homework, books, networking etc. We coach you to find
appropriate steps, motivation and inspiration for achieving your chosen
success.
If you want to expand your capabilities or commence a rewarding career, email
us. You can benefit from professional training, years of
experience and a Code
of Conduct, and you can improve your skills with on-going training,
conferences, networking etc. Soulwork training provides you with the
knowledge and experience for your success. Your success depends on your
commitment and dedication - your rewards are proportional to the quality and
quantity of your service.
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Goals & Outcomes
A coach may ask "What do you want?"
as if you know all your available choices and their consequences. Many therapists
assume that they know your goals better than you do. They may even say, "I
will tell you what you want!"
Some coaches enquire into your situation and
offer you choices from which you can choose your
solution. An example: "Do you already know what you
want; or do you want to explore what possibilities exist; or do you
want some guidance through life until you can find your own way?"
Systemic coaching
agreements help clients define their
goals, and tests for success.
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We welcome friendly people who are motivated and
emotionally stable. Enhance your career with our coaching and relationship
coaching skills. Coach people to gain clarity, dissolve success and
relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life.
Help people build success and quality relationships. You can help
people fulfill their dreams.
We describe each step and how it fits into the overall model. You
experience what is desirable and appropriate. We demonstrate it and coach
you to duplicate those skills. We discuss what happened and what could happen.
You can learn very quickly this way.
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