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Systems Coaching & Systemic Psychotherapy
What is Systemic Coaching? Jan Sikorski

Online Life Coaching & Mentorship

We offer coaching, mentorship and workshops on
systemic coaching, solving relationship issues and team work.

Lives and careers are built on foundations of relationships. No matter how attractive, witty and intelligent you might be, these things often have little value unless you also have relationship skills and you can participate effectively in families, teams and communities.

We coach families, couples, individuals and organizations. We help people co-operate by building healthy relationships. We help couples, families, parts of families or extended families enjoy healthier relationships. We work with individuals, couples, families and teams.

We focus on relationship behaviors rather than on individuals. Many families and teams have found our work to be particularly useful for resolving complex emotional and relationship situations.

Life is easier to plan if you perceive it as a series of
small steps leading to great goals.

Systems Thinking

What do you see if you perceive yourself as a part of many human systems?  You would likely see yourself as a representative of those systems. And you would seek solutions to your problems by first examining the attitudes and interactions of members of your family, work or other relevant groups.

Systemic psychotherapy can help you understand systemic dynamics; for example - who is expressing an injustice in a human system by showing that injustice in their own life. People are representatives of their systems, showing the relationship patterns in which they live.

Our systemic coaching can help you solve emotional problems and relationship problems - and to live your life the way that you want.

Systems Coaching

You can benefit from our systemic coaching. Examine your integrated environment. Consider problems or important decisions as parts of a system. In this way you can access coherent, effective and sustainable solutions. A systemic approach helps you gain immediate access to hidden connections, solutions and strategies. A systemic focus and open perspective lets you know what is happening now ... and the consequences of your action or inaction.

Systemic coaching is a highly effective and proven form of working with people.
It is based on the systemic approach which stems from the most influential
 contemporary approaches to the human condition.
Extima (Czech Republic)

We can arrange private systemic coaching sessions for individuals, couples or teams.

Evaluating Systems Coaching

As systems coaching is increasingly used, a comparison and evaluation of methodologies and schools is important. What research for systemic therapies is appropriate?

Systemic research offers many theories and tools for understanding relationship dynamics. One example is the microanalysis of client-therapist or client-coach interactions.

Systemic psychotherapy is integrated into our family therapy and team coaching. It can help children, parents, helping professionals and organizations. Systemic psychotherapists aim to work with families to help with a wide range of child and adult challenges.

Systemic coaches and systemic therapists hope to engage everyone who may be significant in the work, as different perspectives can be important for long-term change.

We offer an extensive range of trainings. In introductory courses you can apply systemic ideas to your professional tasks or work settings, such as refugee coaching, in primary care and with serious illness. In more advanced courses you can learn how to assess and change systemic beliefs and values.

Do you want to resolve emotional problems and relationship challenges?

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email