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Emotional Intelligence & Freedom Martyn Carruthers

Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Therapy

Most people try to solve emotional and relationship problems in ways that are nice, simple and wrong. Good intentions so often lead to unpleasant consequences.

Health, wealth and happiness are created in human relationship systems ...
and systemic problems require systemic solutions.

Are you attracted to the wrong people?

Do you deny your past? Do you suffer low self-esteem?

Do you want to resolve anger, sadness, guilt or anxiety?

Solutions for Emotional Problems & Relationship Conflicts

Wonderful  partnership - intelligent children growing to independence - happy parents - supportive friends - a comfortable home - fulfilling work ... a sense of being where you should be ... why would you prevent that?

Who sabotages your happiness and sense-of-life?

We assume that you want to feel well and live with a sense of purpose. We assume that you want to participate in a meaningful, purposeful and fulfilling life. We assume that your life is important to you and that you can become the person you want to be.

Each of your choices - each word, each action and each belief - will impact your world, although not always in the ways that you hoped. Do you yearn for more depth?

Are you sleep walking in a waking trance of marketing and political slogans? Can beauty, heart, sensitivity, kindness still awaken you? Or do you wait for something to shock you out of trance?

Soulwork Systemic Solutions

Do you want to solve emotional and relationship problems?

Our systemic psychology training combines theory, demonstration, exercises and feedback. Learn how to help people mature and achieve happiness and success. Learn how to help people define and achieve their goals.

Our exercises give you space to practice what you learn and our feedback offers you the information you need to improve your skills to better help people. We demonstrate and exercise everything we teach - we offer true skills trainings.

Most successful people seem to have a vision or sense of purpose. Their goals are stepping stones to their visions. They work with change rather than fight it. They are inquisitive and feel connected to life. They feel like a unique part of a creative process, in which to live is to learn ... and to accomplish.

If we coach people to do only these things, they are more likely to achieve the results they want, and achieve those results much faster than they would without coaching. People come to us for fast, lasting results, to make life easier and to do things that they know they should do.

Some Applications of Soulwork Systemic Solutions

  1. Emotional Maturity
  2. Emotional Blackmail
  3. People entangled in Affairs
  4. Mother-Daughter Problems
  5. Men who fixate on their Mothers
  6. Eating Disorders and Weight Issues
  7. Women who obsess about their Fathers
  8. Chronic Emotions and Psychosomatic Disease

Do you suffer from job loss; aging; lack of medical treatment, mortgage problems and many other things that need to be worked through so that you can move on? Many people do not solve their own problems. Here are some reasons ...

What stops people solving their own problems?

  1. Toxic beliefs
  2. Emotional immaturity
  3. Relationship entanglements
  4. Mentor damage - poor mentorship
  5. Inner confusion - split-off parts of self
  6. No defined goals nor plans for success
  7. Inner objections, inner criticism and conflicts
  8. Missing resources / qualities - (identity loss)

Resolving Complex Conflict ... Recovering Lost Resources ... Identity Loss

Martyn Carruthers integrated emotional and relationship coaching based on his integration of traditional healing, success coaching and systemic therapy. His work on coaching people to evaluate and solve relationship problems, inter-generational bonds and relationship habits is revolutionary. Fredericton, Canada

More people stay together bonded by unhappy entanglements than bonded by love.
Unhealthy relationships with parents, siblings and ex-partners often cause
conflict, stress and ill health. Let's dissolve it so that you can move on.

Contact us to manage negative emotions and solve relationship problems

Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

I thought you were just another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 2007-2018
All rights reserved.

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email