Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions?
Do you suffer from your parents' drama or your partner's moods?
Do you want Private Sessions?
Do you want Client Referrals?
Do you want better relationships for yourself, your family or for a team?
We can also help you cope
with the emotional and relationship challenges of a changing world.
We can work together online or by telephone.
If we cannot help you, we may recommend appropriate
Do you want us to
refer people to you?
Can you help people dissolve
and relationship problems?
If so, email us and tell us about your experience.
If you only offer intuitive,
or New Age techniques,
we are unlikely to refer people to you.
If you want to check your skills,
systemic coach exam.
Mentor: Online Supervision
- Help you plan ways to achieve your own goals
- Help you define and fine tune individual,
partnership and family goals
- Coach you to identify and manage emotional and
- Help you check the relationship consequences
of your actions or inactions
- Provide structure, tools and perspective to
help you accomplish what you want
Life Coaching, Relationship Counseling & Specialties
We coach motivated individuals, partners,
families and teams. Most of our individual work is to increase individual
success and reduce individual suffering. Most of our systemic (relationship)
work is to increase success and happiness in families
or teams. We embed individual coaching within relationship
Most of our clients (including helping
professionals) want to change their relationship habits, health, finances,
or their emotions. Some people ask for free sessions - while we do offer cut-rate coaching in poorer countries and we
often refer requests for free coaching to our students.
Fear of loss is often stronger than
a desire for gain!
Uncomfortable as it may sound, that the
first step for many people is that they have suffered enough to seek solutions.
We often ask potential clients, "Have you suffered enough to change?"
Other people may want to stretch themselves or ask for our suggestions,
encouragement and support.
Many people do not want to change. We tell potential
clients that they have to work to change, and we check their
motivation. We do not enjoy listening to justifications, complaints and blame.
If you are trained and experienced as a business coach,
and you know some of the language and culture of organizations,
we may refer clients to you.
Relationship Coaching & Counseling
If you want
to be a great coach or counselor, you must know how to to launch a business.
Building a business requires other skills than coaching excellence!
Have you identified your business challenges?
Can you work cooperatively? Are you fulfilled and happy with your life
partner? If so - great - you know a lot about making healthy, mature decisions!
If not, do you want to learn how to build and enjoy all types of healthy relationships?
We can guide you to know, appreciate and accept
yourself as you are - and to develop the way that you want. We can help you
discover how to truly create worthwhile relationships with other people.
If you are single and motivated, we can help you
fulfill your dream of stable, healthy partnership. (But we do not help, support nor
predators or misogynists to hurt or damage more people.)
Classical coaching can help people achieve simple life goals. We
offer mentoring, values assessment, behavior modification, behavior
modeling and goal-setting. We help motivated adults get what they want.
We offer dedicated attention and perceptive feedback. Our
non-directive, client centered approach helps people discover healthy
solutions for their problems and challenges ... and we also offer
our systems training to helping professionals.
Many people use drugs as a substitute
for change. Self-medication with alcohol or nicotine, or prescription
anti-depressants and stimulants, is easier than applying intelligence,
focus and analytical skills to complex emotional and relationship situations.
And drugs are much more profitable.
Solutions for Emotional Blocks and Relationship Challenges
Most human relationships show complex
yet predictable patterns of interdependency. We help people resolve
conflicts and entanglements, and enjoy better relationships. See our
Coaching Philosophy. Our key strategies can be summarized:
- Evaluate and clarify
- Define goals
and plan their achievement
relationship bonds to recover freedom
and trauma to recover motivation
identity loss to recover lost qualities and skills
mentor damage and find
for a better and healthier partnerships
coaching to solve family problems for family harmony
- Team coaching
to manage leadership and team problems
Our trainings are intensely practical, with enough theory and discussion for
systemic changework to be understood
and effectively applied. Our
are particularly useful for helping professionals
who wish to add systems coaching to their repertoire.
We offer solutions for your
cognitive mind, your emotional heart and your intuitive soul.
Do you want to accelerate your personal and professional development?
Learn how to listen carefully and how to use goalwork
and relationship diagnosis to explore people's personal realities.
Learn how to quickly uncover unconscious objections and habits. Learn how to
heal emotions and solve relationship problems.
Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy
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