There appears to be no limits to the happiness of healthy relationships,
nor to the suffering of unhealthy relationships.
Relationships: Emotions, Bonds and Happiness
Most people want to love and be loved in happy relationships.
Most people want to resolve conflicts and difficult emotions. Our coaching,
counseling and training are products of 25 years of experience solving emotional
and relationship issues.
You can benefit in many ways. Perhaps you want to know yourself
better. Perhaps you want people to understand you. Maybe you want
to decide how to build
your life path. Perhaps you seek a partner to walk with you through life.
Your emotions reflect your history. Your emotions communicate
your partly-conscious assessments of your relationships and
beliefs; which may emerge as intuitions and gut feelings. Were you taught to
explore and share your feelings, or to hide or deny them?
Hiding and denying emotions can lead to empty lives. You probably
know many people who seem dry or hollow. Perhaps they prefer this
emptiness to feeling lonely, sad, frustrated, angry or bored. Perhaps they have
already suffered the consequences of unhealthy relationships - and have given
Who asks us for emotional and relationship counseling?
- people who have had enough
- people who want more from life
- people who will not settle for less
- people who believe happiness is possible
- people who want to learn about themselves
- people who value their health and well-being
Your relationship skills reflect your maturity. If you stop developing
- at any age - then your relationship skills stay at that age. In
a crisis you may behave like a child. When you're having fun, you may act
like a teenager. Do you want to catch up on your life?
Our specialties are:
Put ELATION into your RelationSHIPS
You can always improve your relationships, and if some people in
your life do not want this, you can decide how much of your life you give them.
Consider your friends and your colleagues - do you want to become more like
them? Consider your partner and any past-partners - was your time with them a
Then consider your community ... we encourage your
health and your passion. Feel your emotions carefully, and learn how
to make better decisions using logic and the information your emotions give you.
Good intentions are only a good start! We help people manage their emotions,
solve relationship problems and prepare for future life challenges.
If you accept or tolerate unhealthy relationships - expect
boredom, frustration and depression. Act now to build long-term
happy and healthy relationships.
Friends may range from casual acquaintances to intimate
partners. Good friends are life blessings - but good friends
are not luck. Quality friendships requires skill.
We can help you improve your relationship skills. The ability to solve problems
with friends is a pre-requisite for effective teamwork,
happy partnership and healthy parenthood. Were you taught how to be friendly? Friendship skills
- How to offer help
- How to share feelings
- How to join conversations
- How to give and receive criticism
- How to show, "I'm interested in you"
- How to give and receive compliments
Our couple counseling can
save you years of trial-and-error suffering. We can help you and your partner to
build or develop double vision - how you and your partner resolve
conflicts and work together.
We coach couples to evaluate partnership, manage
relationship problems, and prepare for future challenges. We help couples
manage issues of abandonment, betrayal, abuse and trauma; and to:
- share emotions & values
- build a joyous relationship
- change relationship habits
- resolve guilt issues
- clarify past partnerships and affairs
- separate peacefully if hope has faded
Healthy partnership requires healthy communication skills.
We offer premarital
coaching to prepare for partnership and
to people who want to peacefully disconnect and rebuild their lives apart.
We help couples:
- Define relationship problems
- Dissolve relationship conflicts
- Prepare for challenges
- Manage emotional triggers
- Compare values, goals and needs
- Clarify past and present relationships
Healthy partnership skills also support parenthood and
Families are intimate teams that feed, shelter and shape the lives of
children. We help family members manage emotional and behavioral challenges
in ways that increase harmony and resourcefulness.
We help family members voice their needs and fears, check other member's
perspectives, examine conflicts as mutual problems - and find cooperative solutions.
counseling and parent
coaching supports all family members.
Contact us when you are ready to move on.
Online Coaching, Relationship Counseling & Systemic Therapy
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another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
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