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Disclosure Statement

For the purpose of this Disclosure Statement - Soulwork Systemic Solutions includes: Online Life Coaching, Telephone Coaching, Systemic Coaching and Systemic Coach Training programs.

The information of this website is for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace the advice of health care practitioners. It is also not intended to diagnose or prescribe treatment for any illness or disorder. Anyone undergoing physician-prescribed therapy should seek the advice of a medical doctor before reducing the dosage or stopping treatment.

To use Soulwork Systemic Solutions, you agree to be bound by the following terms and conditions:


(1) Soulwork Systemic Solutions are provided by graduates of Soulwork Systemic Coach training programs. We follow professional standards described at Code of Conduct.

(2) Soulwork Systemic Solutions are not traditional mental health counseling, medicine, psychology or psychotherapy and are considered an alternative source of support, information and guided self-help.

(3) Soulwork Systemic Solutions do not provide crisis intervention. If you are or know of someone that is in crisis, considering violent, suicidal or homicidal behavior -- please STOP. Get off the computer, pick up a telephone, contact one of your country's emergency services and ask for advice.

(4) Soulwork Systemic Solutions fees are described HERE. Email fees include the time to read, research and respond to e-mails and telephone calls. You can prepay Soulwork Systemic Solutions by PayPal, which includes major credit cards.

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(5) Soulwork Systemic Solutions strives to respond to e-mail correspondence within 72 hours. However, consideration needs to be given to computer limitations, resulting in occasional interruptions by online email filters, computer failure, telephone and electrical outages, for which Soulwork Systemic Solutions is not to be held responsible.

(6) Soulwork Systemic Solutions can help you live with integrity and manage everyday life challenges. We cannot guarantee that you will manage a specific problem, however we can help you clarify what YOU want ... and we can help you find resources and support to get what you want.

(7) Should your emotional distress increase, Soulwork Systemic Solutions can help you learn to feel better and become more aware of how you can handle the challenges and opportunities of your daily life. Read more in Stress Management.

(8) Soulwork Systemic Solutions will not discuss conversations with you (personal, telephone or e-mail) without your written permission, except for suspected abuse or neglect of children or vulnerable adults and suspected risks to the personal safety of yourself or other people.

(9)Soulwork Systemic Solutions follows professional standards, including honesty, quality, informed consent, privacy, confidentiality, professionalism and accountability within a coaching relationship.

To use the Soulwork Systemic Solutions, you must agree that you have read and understood the posted Soulwork Systemic Solutions Disclosure Statement.


Is This You?

  • You're in a rut, and you don't know what you want
  • You know what you want but you cannot start getting it
  • You want more from your life, your work and your relationships
  • You have important goals and you aren't sure how to achieve them
  • You are pulled in several directions and you don't know which way to go


If any of the following apply to you - please seek local assistance first:

  1. You are suicidal - and / or you are in a health or financial crisis
  2. You need psychiatric medication or illegal drugs to function
  3. You are generally dysfunctional or irresponsible

If you pass that ... probably you can focus on what makes sense in your life.

Do you intend to improve your health, happiness or success? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you generally motivated and responsible? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have many friends? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Can you tell your truth? Do you avoid deceiving people? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you financially ready to invest in your own development? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you usually proactive to your life challenges? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you ready to examine and change any self-sabotage? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Can you enjoy trying new ways and new behaviors? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Have you suffered enough? Can you consider major changes? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you reliable? Do you keep appointments? YES - SOMETIMES - NO

Are you Ready?

  • For each YES - 3 points

  • For each SOMETIMES - 1 point

0 - 10 You are unlikely to change anything soon. Maybe later, when you are ready.
11 - 20 You want to change something. Soulwork telephone coaching may be good for you
21 - 30 You are ready to take off. Private coaching sessions may be perfect for you.
Over 20 You may make a great life coach. Consider attending systemic coach training


Coaching, Counseling or Coach Training?

Our Soulwork systemic coaching is a source of support, information, advice and guided self help, as you focus on your life and your future. Soulwork helps you achieve your wishes, desires and dreams. Soulwork helps you to design and develop your life, with a coach who helps you to work through obstacles, reminds you of your uniqueness and greatness when you forget, a coach who gives you tools when you get stuck, a coach who helps you manage your hesitations, uncertainty and fears.

Do you want to change success blocks and relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life? Do you want to build success and healthy relationships?

If you like our work, please link to us. If you know someone who might benefit,
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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email