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Systems Coaching: Comments & Feedback

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Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Were you abused?
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Previous Comments & Suggestions

Thanks for your articles about abortion ... they helped me stay sane

Please write more for people who were abused by therapists
yet cannot leave them

What on earth motivated you to integrate elements of
Hawaiian spirituality into systems theory?

Thanks for writing about your research into identity loss ...
why do so many therapies make it worse?

Many of my clients are affected by emotional incest ...
but my PhD in Psychology did not include this topic

Your work on relationship bonds shocked me with its simplicity
... are you re-engineering psychology?

My endless gratitude for helping us help our children ... the changes are unbelievable since my wife and I applied some of your coaching
about preventing learning disabilities

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email