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Funny stories and jokes are risky - about one third of people enjoy
business humor,
a third don't care and a third consider humor irrelevant.
However, a sense of humor can help a coach or consultant stay resourceful
in chaos. Most of what follows was heard during systemic coaching and
coach training.
He who laughs last thinks slowest!
- Corporate Coaching is one-half bureaucracy,
one-third crisis, one-quarter routine and one-eighth accomplishment ...
and never enough time to check the math.
- Systemic consultants must have equal parts of perspiration,
inspiration and resignation; and must be convincingly confident ...
especially when uncertain
Domestic Coaching (by Martyn Carruthers)
- We were both self-employed coaches seeking a
teamwork opportunity
- Our first date was test marketing and determining the
worst case
scenario
- We were late for a consumption function, so we adjusted our
process flow
- Our first month was our diagnostic period for
market research
- Our first argument ineffectively profiled an
administrative situation
- We respected each other's displayed assets
and core competencies
- We evaluated each other's strategic paradigms using
expert
modeling
- Our Valentine cards listed executive summaries in
bulleted
points
- We decided on a functional merger to create a
traditional organization
- We select domestic consumables using
decision-tree analysis
- Going to bed is now a value-added win-win situation
with the co-CEO
- We celebrate our anniversaries with
performance reviews
- And now we are parents with a
new team member on board
- We and our junior executive share many
mutual learning opportunities
- ... with endless potential for destructive testing and
constructive feedback
- We considered re-engineering and
downsizing our organization
- ... but instead we reorganized into a
quality-team based hierarchy
- Obviously, our contingency planning avoided
divestiture
- So we are marketing our combined systemic expertise
- We offer in-house skill-based
experiential intensives in domestic performance
Questions Consultants Hate (personal experiences)
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How can we concentrate our resources on all of our projects?
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Can you list all the unknown problems we will encounter?
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While you are completing this project - can you also ... ?
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I can't put this off any longer ... will you do it for me?
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Why didn't you just tell us the solution up front?
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Can you delay finding that solution until ... ?
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Can we delay paying you until ... ?
All you did was ask questions - we
found the answers ourselves!
Management: 10 (personal experiences)
- My project is important ... don't do anything more important!
- We can't reveal our communication problems to employees!
- You must strongly recommend that they keep my position!
- I can't tell them that you solved my problem in one day!
- Doing it right is no excuse for not meeting my schedule!
- I shouldn't have to tell you what I am hiring you to do!
- You must confirm what I have already recommended!
- If I wanted it tomorrow, I would ask for it tomorrow!
- I don't have time to tell you what we want you to do!
- If you get me promoted - I will get you more work!
Consultants: 5 (mixed sources)
- Give expensive advice on topics you know nothing about
- If you can solve it in a week, get a three month contract
- Hyphenate words-that-don't-need-to-be-hyphenated
- Call it what you like, but be ready to fire people
- Agree with all general statements
- Help us out, consultants...
Success is too important to take seriously!
Management Styles (loosely based on Dr Clare Graves research)
1. Survival: What teamwork? You're on your own!
2. Family: Teamwork is doing it the way that grandfather wanted it done!
3. Power: Teamwork is easy - just do what I say!
4. Establishment: Teamwork is doing it by the book!
5. Success: Teamwork follows the Golden Rule: Whoever has the gold makes the
rules!
6. Consensus: Teamwork is being nice to each other!
7. Systemic: You were team leader yesterday, today you make the
coffee!
8. Global: If it doesn't save a whale - it's not worth doing!
Demotivating Motivation (heard in
passing)
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Their mindless jobs are better than no jobs at all!
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We will cancel all vacations until productivity rises!
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We can remove the light from the end of their tunnel until production
increases!
Unbelievababble (from news
services)
- AT&T fired President John Walter after nine months,
saying he lacked "intellectual leadership". Walter received
a $26 million severance package.
- A 27-year-old unemployed man with
an MBA murdered three people. "There are too many MBAs"
he said, "if I had chosen another field, this may not
have happened..."
- This line waits for your stories
Disclaimer
. No managers or consultants were harmed during the construction of this web
site
. This web site was constructed with recycled electrons
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