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Dreamwork, Success & Hypnotherapy
End Emotional and Relationship Problems by Jan Sikorski

Online Dream Coaching & Soulwork Therapy

Are You Dreaming? Are you in Trance?

Dreaming Together & Dreamwork

Martyn Carruthers developed Dreamwork as part of his systemic solutions. Already a credentialed hypnotherapist, his Dreaming Together was inspired by native Hawaiian healers (ho'omoe) and his research into stable resource states and interactive isomorphic metaphors. He uses these tools to provide innovative and rapid solutions for common problems such as post-traumatic stress and mid-life crisis.

In traditional hypnosis, a hypnotist uses authority and suggestions to change a person's perceptions and beliefs, while that person is physically and mentally relaxed. These suggestions may be remembered unconsciously (often called post-hypnotic suggestions) as compulsive behaviors and obsessive beliefs.

In systemic coaching, we treat authority, sincerity, suggestion and advice with a little suspicion. If a person's objections are ignored, unhealthy consequences can follow a hypnotist's or therapist's well-meaning suggestions.

We consider unconscious objections to be a form of body wisdom; and we help people voice, understand and befriend their objections. And much advice is actually criticism. Together, a systemic coach and client can find ways to incorporate objections into healthy decisions.

Goal Hypnosis & Spontaneous Trance

If you consider what you REALLY want - you may become dreamy. If asked for details - you may become ... ummm ... a bit ... ahhh ... foggy. This is an example of spontaneous trance. Spontaneous trance is so common during Goalwork that Martyn sometimes refers to it as goal hypnosis.

We utilize spontaneous trance to help people clarify steps, untangle emotions and relationships, and to manage unwanted behavior. Our Dreamwork also offers help for people with psychosomatic conditions.

Our systemic solutions increase success and reduce suffering. As we increase success - we increase the adaptability and survival potential of a relationship system. Our systemic coaching includes

  • Resolving guilt
  • Ending fixations
  • Resolving trauma
  • Resolving mentor damage
  • Changing relationship bonds
  • Finding lost resources and abilities

We also provide training on building a successful practice

  • Networking with professional peers
  • Coach/client relationship and ethics
  • Promoting and marketing your practice
  • Every training day includes demonstrations and exercises

Overview of Dreamwork

Benefits of Dreaming Together

With our systemic solutions training you can:

  1. Improve concentration
  2. Make better decisions
  3. Sleep and relax better
  4. Reduce conflict and stress
  5. Find a worthwhile life-mission
  6. Procrastinate procrastination
  7. Better express your emotions
  8. Quickly adapt to difficult situations
  9. Dissolve conflicts, anxiety and melancholy
  10. Attract and maintain worthwhile relationships

Dreaming Together can assist your:

  1. creativity
  2. success
  3. education
  4. mental health
  5. physical health
  6. emotional health
  7. business interests

Dreaming Together can help you

Shared dreams are a strong bonding force and

  1. strengthen self-control
  2. control unpleasant feelings
  3. intensify supportive feelings
  4. develop better, healthy habits
  5. integrate split-off parts of yourself
  6. gain insight into emotions and relationships
  7. create innovative solutions for relationships

When to Avoid Dreaming Together

We refer some people to helping professionals who can diagnose and treat clinical issues; or you can seek a referral from a medical doctor or psychiatrist before proceeding.

  1. People dealing with life-threatening diseases
  2. People likely to have repressed abusive memories
  3. People who have no friends or healthy relationships
  4. People who appear dangerous to themselves or others
  5. People diagnosed with psychiatric or neurological disorders

We use the word Dreamwork to refer to the way we coach people during dreams and interactive metaphors, although Sigmund Freud used the word to mean the way the unconscious mind works and plays with us during our sleeping dreams.

Some of our goals for dream coaching are that you develop flexibility, responsibility and independence, and that you can ...

  1. delay gratification
  2. respond, not react
  3. clean up your own mess
  4. learn from your mistakes
  5. be curious and excited about life
  6. respect knowledge and communication skills
  7. realize that people create many of their own problems
  8. relax and let people find their ways of thinking or doing things
  9. understand the consequences of your reactions on other people
  10. realize that your emotions, thoughts and relationships dictate your life

Our Dreamwork helps people solve complex emotional and
relationship problems during dreams that we can dream together.

Contact us to change self-sabotage -
end your emotional and relationship blocks to success!

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email