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Emotional Issues
Anger & Rage

Eating Problems
Emotional Maturity
Grief & Loss
Inner Child

Pain Control
Stress Relief

Toxic Beliefs
Trauma & Stress
Weight Loss


Relationship Problems

Dissolve Conflicts
Emotional Blackmail

Enjoy Partnership
Evaluate Partners
Long-Distance Love
Love & Hate

Past Partners
Sexual Issues
Soul Mates


Family Challenges

Brothers & Sisters
Divorce & Children
Emotional Incest
Family Meetings
Family Secrets

Fathers & Daughters
Fathers & Sons
Learning Disorders
Mothers & Daughters
Mothers & Sons

Parental Alienation


Life Lessons
Bad Habits
Being Alone
Children's Challenges
Observing Feelings

Patterns in Love
Personal Growth
Quantum Leap
Self Esteem
Self Improvement
Self Intimacy
Stress & Relaxing
Therapist and Clients


Chaos Coaching

Inner Conflict
Expert Modeling
Learning Disorders

Sexual Abuse
Soul of Soulwork
Systemic Management
Therapist Abuse
Training Abuse



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What are Systemic Solutions?
Solve Emotional Blocks & Relationship Problems

Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

Our work is not about us ... itís all about you

Contact us to solve relationship problems or manage your emotions?

Online Sessions Professional Training

Stop wasting time! We can help you get the breakthroughs that you want - and the life that you deserve.

Our coaching is especially appropriate for people who tried therapy - but it didn't work.

Learn master strategies for life ...

Private Sessions

Do you want to help other people solve emotional and relationship problems?

Our training is especially appropriate for therapists, counselors and life coaches.

Consider our systemic training ...

Overview of Coach Training

Improve your Relationship Skills

Success in any field requires supportive relationships, symptoms, conflicts, beliefs, emotions and role models. Each step builds on each previous success to prepare for the next goal. The sequence is as important as the goals. Ineffective coaching, counseling or therapy wastes precious time on unimportant issues!

Do you wait for people to tell you what to do?
Are you only motivated by pain or suffering?
Do you wait for permission to live your own life?

  1. Current Crisis - assess and relieve shock and stress
  2. Systemic Diagnosis - assess relationship situations
  3. Relationship Clarification - untangle complex relationships
  4. Guilt Management - enhance your sense-of-life and regain motivation
  5. Goal Diagnosis - predict blocks to your goals and your resources
  6. Goal Coaching - define your goals and plan their fulfillment
  7. Conflict Resolution - find direction, resolve conflicts and make better decisions
  8. Identity Changework - manage identity loss and redefine your relationships
  9. Belief Changework - change limiting beliefs while protecting your relationships
  10. Trauma Resolution - resolve unresolved trauma and regain lost resources
  11. Expert Modeling - use expert strategies and duplicate expert performance
  12. Mentorship - disconnect toxic mentors and mentor damage and find inspiration

Overview of Soulwork Coaching & Training

Use our training to explore what people really want, where they are now and how they can succeed. You can help people achieve material success, emotional freedom and/or relationship happiness. You can help people clean up their pasts and their present - as a basis for building their desired future.

Consider our simple logo ... as a process ... as an outline of what we do.

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Crisis & Maturity

First, we help people solve their current crisis (Now). Adults who wait for other people to solve their problems may remain stuck in immaturity and dependence. We help people resolve whatever stops them solving their own issues.

We can help you gain peace and clarity (Now), and better relationships with your parents, partners, ex-partners and children. We help people end relationship confusion (e.g. reacting to a partner as if to a parent, or to a client as if to a partner.) Resolving such entanglements often accelerates life success. See also emotional incest.

Resolve Conflicts to find Integrity


We can help you define and set meaningful goals and resolve goal conflicts (Future). We can help you find the hidden benefits of conflicts and to resolve them. As you resolve conflicts you can better focus on planning and fulfilling your life.

The end of self-sabotage usually leads to an experience of harmony that may seem to transcend space and time. This experience can be a stable life-resource, as you define or re-define your life direction (or mission or purpose). We call it the Soul of Soulwork.

Evaluate Relationships to Increase Choice

As you change your emotional bonds and limiting beliefs, relationship problems are easier to solve and you feel increasingly free, peaceful and inspired. Subsequent coaching becomes more concrete and goal-oriented. See relationship bonds.

Resolve Trauma & Abuse to Boost Motivation

As you manage any resistance to your own success, the consequences of past abuse and trauma may become more pronounced. We can help you end the emotional turmoil and stress that often follow emotional events. Then you can transform your negative emotions into motivation to live a full life. See Trauma & PTSD.

Evaluate Mentors to Build Inspiration

Have you accepted toxic advice? Contact us to resolve mentor damage and find inspirational mentors. With focus, integrity, supportive beliefs, motivation and inspirational mentorship - you can better define and fulfill your life purpose!

Welcome to Soulwork

Do you want to manage emotional issues and solve relationship problems?

Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

I thought you were just another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1998-2018
All rights reserved.

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Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii


Soulwork systemic coaching in England, Wales & Scotland

Soulwork systemic coaching in Croatia & Serbia

Soulwork systemic coaching in Poland



Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email