Do you want free personal individual or systemic coaching?
Individual coaching increases individual happiness and reduces
suffering. Systemic coaching increases the adaptability and survival
potential of partnerships, families and teams. We embed individual
coaching within our systemic coaching.
Why not use drugs (like most people)?
Our systemic coaching does not replace classical coaching.
Classical coaching is useful when people make decisions in controllable
environments with simple objectives. Systemic coaching is useful when
making relationship decisions, especially in complex environments
or with ambiguous objectives.
It's easier for health professionals and most patients to
use drugs rather than to change relationships. Self-medication with alcohol or
nicotine, or prescription anti-depressants and stimulants may seem easier than
applying intelligence and analytical skills to complex relationships.
And drugs are so much more profitable. There's
little money to be made from happy people living healthy lives.
The long-term consequences of avoiding relationship
problems and the unpleasant side-effects of many drugs are unacceptable
to increasing numbers of people.
Which do you choose?
What Price is Free?
Free does not mean that you gain at our loss. Free need not
require charity or dependence. Free means you can benefit from
quality coaching or systemic coach training without financial outlay.
Free Personal Coaching
We prefer to use demonstration subjects who are
not participants of our programs.
We invite you to be a demonstration subject on our courses, or to be an unpaid client
for one of our students. Your payment would be your participation and feedback.
In our systemic coaching, we reject dogma and minimize theory. We
demonstrate everything - repeatedly - to provide an enjoyable, professional
education. We show people how to develop and improve their relationship
intelligence and professional coaching skills, at their own pace.
When we teach, we need demonstration subjects. We need people who are not
participants (they make our coaching look too easy) who are willing to
explore solutions for their relationship and emotional problems - in front of a
group. See our Systemic Coaching Philosophy
and Code of Conduct.
Whether as a demonstration subject or student-client, you must want to take
responsibility for your life. Our Soulwork coaching builds upon your
qualities and skills to deepen your emotional and relationship intelligence.
Coaching is more than what you do, or believe,
Coaching reflects who you are. Coaching reflects your maturity.
Coaching gives you space to express
and use our emotional intelligence.
Free Couple Coaching / Marriage Counseling
Our couple counseling helps partners simultaneously and resourcefully resolve conflicts, discuss
desires, solve challenges. We can coach partners to coach
each other to resolve:
- nonverbal objections (e.g. saying "Yes"
while shaking your head "No")
- meaningless, confusing, negative, conflicting or vague
- miscommunications (e.g. arguments about
responsibility, or meanings of actions)
- transference & transference loops (e.g. one responds
as if the other other were someone else)
We may offer you free couple coaching if you help us promote our
work, cover our expenses or participate as demonstration subjects at
our couple coach training.
Our Systemic Coaching training provide people with an
overview of basic systemic coaching skills. These workshops help people decide
if want to learn systemic coaching for their own pleasure, to heal their own
relationships or to coach other people to improve their relationships.
Introduction to Systemic Coaching workshops can be from a half-day
to three days. We may provide these workshops free of charge in towns or
countries in which we have no training presence.
Free Coaching & Training
We offer you effective coaching skills for evaluating
and changing relationships.
Do you want to learn systemic coaching for free? In your
home town? You can, if you help us organize systemic coach training. Read
Training Partners and then email us
Contact us for coaching, counseling or systemic training
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