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Emotional Issues
Addictions
Anger & Rage
Anxiety
Dependence
Depression

Dissociation
Eating Problems
Emotional Maturity
Grief & Loss
Immaturity
Inner Child

Pain Control
Sadness
Stress Relief

Toxic Beliefs
Trauma & Stress
Weight Loss

 

Relationship Problems
Abuse
Affairs

Codependence
Dissolve Conflicts
Divorce
Emotional Blackmail

Enjoy Partnership
Evaluate Partners
Long-Distance Love
Love & Hate

Partnership
Past Partners
Premarital
Rejection
Sexual Issues
Soul Mates

 

Family Challenges
Abuse

Abortion
Adoption
Ancestors
Brothers & Sisters
Divorce & Children
Emotional Incest
Family Meetings
Family Secrets

Fathers & Daughters
Fathers & Sons
Learning Disorders
Mothers & Daughters
Mothers & Sons

Parental Alienation

 

Life Lessons
Authority
Bad Habits
Being Alone
Children's Challenges
Communication
Observing Feelings

Patterns in Love
Personal Growth
Quantum Leap
Self Esteem
Self Improvement
Self Intimacy
Stress & Relaxing
Therapist and Clients

 

Specialties
Chaos Coaching

Inner Conflict
Consciousness
Expert Modeling
Leadership
Learning Disorders
Mentorship

Psychobiology
Sexual Abuse
Soul of Soulwork
Systemic Management
Therapist Abuse
Training Abuse

 

 

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Fee, Cost, Price
 

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Guidance that is RIGHT for You

Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

 
Better Relationships

Client Referrals

We help people improve their relationships, their personal and professional development and their quality of life.

Tell us about your goals, what stops you reaching them and what you have already tried.

Please mention your town and country, your motivation, your age and whether you prefer to travel or have online sessions.

Systemic Solutions FAQ

We refer clients to people whom we have trained, and to professionals who can manage relationship problems and identity loss

Are you a helping professional? Do you want us to refer clients to you? Email us and tell us about your work, your specialties and your experience.

We will not refer clients to people who cannot manage relationship problems, or who only offer dissociation, NLP or New Age techniques.


Online Sessions, Private Visits or Professional Training?

If any of the following apply to you - please seek local help first:

* You are under 18
* You want free sessions
* You cannot cope with change
* You may harm  yourself or others
* You cannot cope  with your  daily  life
* You need treatment for psychiatric disorders

Are you mostly mature and responsible? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have good friends? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you honest? Do you generally avoid deception? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you usually proactive  to solving life challenges? YES - MAYBE - NO
Have you suffered enough?  Do you want to change? YES - MAYBE - NO
Can  you  enjoy using new ways  and  new  behaviors? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you willing to stop complaining, blaming and shaming? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in  your own future? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you  ready to  explore and change any  self-sabotage? YES - MAYBE - NO
Do you intend to improve your health, wealth  and happiness? YES - MAYBE - NO


* For each YES - give yourself 3 points
 * For each MAYBE - only 1 point
 * Count your points ...

Over 24: You seem motivated and mature. Coaching you will be a pleasure.

Over 15: You seem ready to change. Our coaching should be good for you.

Under 15: Are you really ready to change? Which resources do you need?

During our private sessions, you can discuss and explore your goals and plans, as we together search for appropriate solutions that honor and empower your relationships, your work and your life.

  • Do you want to bring us to your location?
  • Online coaching is less intense and highly flexible.
  • Private coaching is fast and intense; we can help you make arrangements.

Online coaching . Private Sessions . Couple Coaching . Advanced Training

  • For more on costs - see Investment
  • Perhaps print this page for easy reference
  • One of us will respond your first email freely
  • We follow well-defined ethics - see Code of Conduct
  • Your personal details are private - see Privacy Policy
  • The more accurately you answer - the better we can respond
  • Aggressive emails and victim-like demands are deleted on impact
  • This is not an online form - please answer these questions by email
Please copy, paste, complete and email to:
Name: Partnership Status: City / time zone:
Age: Health: Problem started:
Major goals:
Major problems:
Emotional blocks:
Relationship issues:
Additional information:
Which article did you like?
What have you already tried?
When would you like to start?
Do you have Skype and PayPal accounts?

Please do not send email attachments - just copy and paste this into your email.

If you can, please mention your motivation, your time frame for your success and whether you can travel. If relevant, mention your education, profession and special skills; also any disease, disabilities, and whether you are taking psychoactive drugs or are attending psychotherapy or psychiatric treatment etc. (If so, we may ask you to talk to your health care provider about whether or not to include our coaching.)

Our coaching sessions are not a substitute for medical care, nor for professional legal advice. Contact us to manage emotional problems and improve relationships.

Guidelines for your Coaching

Skype Coaching Private Sessions Professional Training
You want to learn new skills; or you want to apply existing skills in different contexts.

You want better relationships. You want to solve entanglements. You want to be happier. Organizational coaching, for community / international projects.

You want new perspectives on life, or you want sense-of-life.

You want to change or control your habits or compulsions.

You want in-house training for an organization.

You want better relationships; you want quality partnership, parenthood or leadership. You want to manage relationship issues (Couple Coaching; Family Coaching; or Team Coaching). You want contingency planning or disaster relief.
You want success. You want to solve personal or relationship problems at home or at work. You want to manage codependent relationships or end long term abuse or manipulation. You want refugee management for people who are lost or disconnected.

We do not help people achieve goals which, in our opinion,
are criminal, unethical or which hurt children.

Contact us ... your email address is safe with us.

Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

I thought you were just another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 2005-2017 All rights reserved.


If you like our work, please link to us. If you know someone who might benefit,
please mention www.SystemicPsychology.com or www.EmotionsRelationships.com

For online help, email us at: europecoach@gmail.com

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2017 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email europecoach@gmail.com