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Online Life Coaching & Training

Emotional and relationship blocks have many solutions that are nice, simple and wrong.
Health, wealth and happiness are created in human systems - and require systemic solutions.

Martyn Carruthers

Joy arises when we are true to our purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. Yet few of us can fulfill our purpose, except in relationships in which we can communicate our life goals, love and passion.

Explore the influences of your relationships to your life to a deeper level than you are normally aware. A big part of your personality may be created to survive your early family. Once you find your true self you are free to live a happy and creative life.

Kosjenka Muk

Martyn develops and teaches systemic family coaching and specializes in emotional incest, expert modeling and family coaching.

Kosjenka is a relationship therapist with a private practice, and specializes in self-esteem, emotional maturity and partnership problems.

Your motivation to resolve your emotional or relationship blocks may be based on your dreams, your goals or the unpleasant consequences of NOT resolving them. If you don't change - what will your life look like a few years from now? Your family's happiness? Your health? Let us know when you're ready.

Are you Ready Now?

We avoid psychobabble, medibabble and abstract philosophy. We keep it simple.

Seek local help or assistance first if ...
  • You want free coaching
  • You believe that it's good to suffer
  • You cannot cope with change or stress
  • You are suicidal or you may harm yourself
  • You need psychiatric medication or drugs to function
  • You have no good relationships or you generally avoid people
  • You are generally dysfunctional or you cannot cope with daily tasks

If you pass that ... probably you can focus on what you want to change

Are you friendly? Do you have good friends? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you generally motivated and responsible? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you usually proactive to solving life challenges? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Can you enjoy trying new ways and new behaviors? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Can you tell your truth? Do you avoid deceiving people? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you ready to examine and change any self-sabotage? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you financially ready to invest in your own development? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you reliable? Do you keep promises and appointments? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Have you suffered enough? Can you consider major changes? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Do you intend to improve your health, happiness and success? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
  • For each YES - give yourself 3 points
  • For each SOMETIMES - only 1 point
0 - 10 You are unlikely to change anything soon. Call us when you're ready.
Over 10 You want to change slowly. Our telephone or Skype sessions are for you
Over 20 You could be a great coach. Consider attending our professional training


Do you want to solve what stops you solving your own problems?

When asked about our clients' successes, we rarely boast of medals and prizes - rather about people who live happier, better adjusted, and more rewarding lives than before they hired us. Much of our coaching is dissolving what stops people solving their own problems.

  1. Evaluate and clarify relationships and relationship problems
  2. Define goals and manage objections to plan for success
  3. Access and stabilize an ongoing experience of integrity
  4. Dissolve emotional abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation
  5. Dissolve relationship bonds and enjoy healthier relationships
  6. Recover identity loss; missing qualities, expertise and skills
  7. Repair mentor damage & find inspirational mentorship
  8. Coach couples or partners to solve relationship problems
  9. Coach parents to recognize and solve family problems
  10. Coach team leaders to lead teams and solve team problems

We help people solve complex relationship and emotional problems. Ask us about dissolving abuse, anger, anxiety, betrayal, separation, trauma, grief and other life problems.

Our systemic solutions is for:
  1. You - if you want lasting improvements to your professional or personal life
  2. Managers who want to develop leadership and personal communication skills
  3. Couples & Families who want to solve relationship problems for more happiness
  4. Organizations that want productive teams and effective teamwork
  5. Entrepreneurs who want to improve relationship management and leadership skills
  6. Leaders who want to develop the potential, security and success of organizations


What to Expect

  • Expect flexibility, politeness and courtesy. Expect respect for what you have accomplished. Expect to be encouraged to define, plan and reach your goals.
  • Expect to start with about 2 hours of orientation, reviewing your goals, your relationships and your history relevant to your goals and dreams. Subsequent coaching is fast and deep.
  • Expect to explore how you can reach your goals faster. Discover what works for you and stop what stops you.
  • Expect to develop your emotional intelligence. Expect to change unproductive habits, cultivate healthy relationships and make better decisions - at home and at work.

Find a Coach who is RIGHT for You . A Medical Doctor reviews our Systemic Solutions

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email