Develop your coaching and counseling skills through demonstrations, practical exercises
and role-playing. Use these advanced coaching skills with clients, friends
or at work;
or add these skills to your coaching, counseling or therapeutic practice.
Focus on maturity and long-term happiness!
Are you pursuing happiness? You have probably tried
And you may have been unhappy anyway. Lasting happiness
is real - and needs real work. You have to set happiness goals.
You have to plan. And remember to be happy.
Lasting happiness requires that you are
comfortable with yourself and with the consequences of your decisions. Your
relationship with yourself determines how you respond to life and how you relate
or connect to everyone else. Long-term happiness is real and enduring ... fun is
a short-term distraction. Both are wonderful in their place, yet an obsession
with fun can damage chances for happiness.
If you have a good relationship with yourself,
you will see your world in a warm and positive way. If you carry guilt or avoid
solving problems, you may see your world as cold and unpleasant. Until you
change, lasting happiness may forever elude you. You may instead lose yourself
in a search for distractions.
Unhappiness is easy. Simply avoid planning and
expect other people to entertain you. Your long-term happiness requires your
active participation. You can choose to make happiness a central part of your
life. And part of your lasting happiness may be to help other people increase
their joy of living.
Each segment of our training provides tools
and skills to resolve or control specific blocks to happiness. Each segment is
both a stand-alone course and is fully integrated into the larger frame of a
systemic coaching diploma.
Segments of our Systemic Coaching Diploma Course
are 5 days (6 days if translation required). Each segment of this Diploma Course
is repeated every 2 years in many countries. While we recommend attending the
segments in the sequence 1 to 10, you can attend them in any sequence you
Most of our courses are 2 or 5
consecutive days, or over 2 weekends
Relationship Coaching & Counseling
Here are some
basic tools for exploring relationships:
- Note emotionally sensitive topics and habits.
- Reveal and describe your underlying emotions.
- Share feedback calmly, not in blame or accusations.
- Recognize complaints, criticism, justifications and
- Separate the content of messages from how they are
- Put yourselves into each other's places, to
understand each others' viewpoints.
- Are you more interested in blaming, punishing or winning than in
- Check what each other has communicated. Identify and ask what
may be missing or inferred.
- Identify your underlying values and how each
of you benefit from the problem.
- Stay with a problem, observe its dynamics and follow its emotions, without trying to change it -
and watch it change!
Loving relationships are the path and the goal of love.
Exceptional love requires exceptional clarity.
Contact us to
build bridges across forever - bridges to integrity.
Online Coaching, Relationship Counseling & Systemic Therapy
I thought you were just
another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
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