Contact us to evaluate and change your life.
. Soulwork Hawaii . Soulwork Europe
We help people change beliefs, emotions and relationships. We
incorporated many modalities to help people manage their emotions, change their
beliefs, define their goals and develop spiritually.
To survive and prosper in today's economy, most
people must redefine their goals and plans. Are you ready to change your
emotions and beliefs about your life? Do you want to become more
self-aware and help your family by first improving yourself?
We can help you mold and shape your dreams as you
define goals, create plans, make decisions and move on in your life.
We help people mange their emotions, change their beliefs and improve
We can help you change your current and future
behavior. We do not not focus on examining your past, nor diagnose mental
illnesses nor discuss medications. We can help you get what you want.
Our questions, experiences and provocation can help you move on.
Maturity & Emotional Freedom
Many people sabotage their own lives.
Are you enmeshed in other people's sabotage?
Are you entangled in old trauma or other people's problems?
While most Americans are descended from Europeans,
the relationship habits and relationship problems of both continents
are not the same. We find that Americans tend to have more complex
relationships - and more complex relationship problems - than their
Individual happiness, family roles and community
responsibilities in America often seem to be blurred by the impact of
media, marketing, multiculturalism, multiple relocations, multiple
partnerships, parental alienation, emotional incest and combined families.
Many American helping professionals seem to specialize in
helping single people find partners, in helping partners become parents and
in helping parents solve minor problems ... in a country with the world's
highest rates of divorce and family breakdown. What's missing?
Let regret for time wasted motivate you to
use whatever time remains!
We help people improve their maturity by resolving emotional
problems and relationship problems. We help people change their bonds with past partners, fixations with parents,
defuse sexual affairs and deal with the consequences of abortion.
We consider that your emotions reflect
your relationships, and during our relationship
coaching and clarification, many emotional problems may seem to evaporate.
We have presented our
coaching and training in Europe, Asia, Africa and Australia. We adapt
to different cultural and ethnic backgrounds to offer the best in
brief relationship coaching.
We may use inquiry, reflection, requests and
discussion to help people define their goals, and to develop strategies,
relationships and action plans to achieve those goals. We help people become
accountable to themselves by monitoring their progress towards their goals.
We can be your sounding boards and human mirrors.
Our Coaching & Training
It would be hard to watch you suffer -
when we have something that could really help you.
Our training, personal or online, combines theory, demonstration, exercises
and feedback. You can learn about yourself, people and success - and how you
can help people increase their success. Our training shows you why, how and
with whom to do this. We give you space to practice what you learn and our
feedback offers you the information you need to improve your skills.
We enjoy coaching people to build healthy relationships.
Healthy relationships are often characterized by acceptance, encouragement,
communication, respect, solving problems quickly, talking about goals and
feelings, planning together and working together to raise children, build a
business or help their communities.
Attraction is not enough for lasting happiness ...
healthy relationships require goals, commitment and skills.
What have you already tried that failed? Have you
already tried therapy, counseling or coaching but all you got was
(hyper)active listening or useless advice?
Online Systemic Solutions
Problems with Self
Problems with Family
Problems with Partner
- Burnt Out
- Identity Loss
- Low Self-Esteem
- Chronic Emotions
- Mental Disorders
- Lack of support
- Lack of love
- Immature Partner
- Little Appreciation
- Emotional Neglect
- Compulsive Behavior
- Death of family member
- Immature Partner
- Little Appreciation
- Emotional Neglect
- Little or No Affection
You are not alone. We can help you!
Soulwork Systemic Solutions - Training Objectives
I am told that people can readily identify with
sharks, a tuna or dolphins. Sharks get energy from killing, tuna
get energy from victimhood and dolphins get energy from playful teamwork. If
this simplification has any truth - which would you identify with?
Following successful completion of our training,
participants will be able to:
- Evaluate and clarify relationship problems
- Define goals, resolve objections & plan for success
- How to end self-criticism & inner conflict to recover integrity
- Recover lost and missing qualities, expertise and skills
- How to change relationship bonds for healthy relationships
- How to resolve abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
- How to end mentor damage & find inspirational mentorship
- Coach couples and partners simultaneously
- Coach whole families or parts of families simultaneously
- Coach teams and develop team leaders simultaneously
Founder: Martyn Carruthers
Martyn Carruthers founded an innovative
integration of emotional and relationship coaching based in part on his integration
of systems thinking with
traditional healing methods. Martyn is acknowledged for creating effective
methods for evaluating and changing relationship systems, dissolving
cross-generational entanglements and resolving unwanted relationship habits.
More people stay together bonded by fixations than
bonded by love.
Poor relationships with parents and ex-partners often cause lasting
stress and ill health. Contact us to clean up your situation and move on.
Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy
I thought you were just
another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
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Martyn Carruthers 2005-2018
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