We offer quality coaching to people who want to manage their emotions,
dissolve emotional blocks, build better relationships and achieve their goals.

We can encourage you to make decisions - but we do not make decisions for you.
We can encourage you to see other points of view - but we do not take sides.
We can support your choices but we do not pressure anybody to change.

We coach people - individuals, couples, families and teams - to get what they want.
We specialize in helping people solve emotional and relationship problems, and we mentor
helping professionals to work with their difficult clients. Visit our Facebook Community.

Are You Coachable?  .  Prices & Costs  .  Mentorship for Therapists

I had been reading your articles for months and now, after just a few sessions, I wish I had not waited! I understand myself and my partner so much better ... I even get along with my mother-in-law!

Do you want to change some part of your life? Do you delay seeking help until you suffer a crisis?
Do you wait until your partnership, your income or your health are at risk? Why not find solutions before a challenge becomes a crisis? We can help you prevent or remedy many situations.

To be pleased with one’s limits is a wretched state.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Many armchair philosophers offer simple solutions for complex problems. Prayers, affirmations, positive thoughts, symbols, clearings and meditations are often full of hope and promises ... and can be useful if you have no emotional blocks to happiness, success nor a better life. Being nice is rarely enough.

Martyn, it all came down to trust. There are very few people that we would trust with our marriage. You and Kosjenka earned our trust and we never had cause to doubt it. Without your coaching we would be divorced now. Auckland, New Zealand

We coach and mentor helping professionals to expand their horizons
and to help other people manage their emotions and improve their relationships.

We mentor Helping Professionals to help Clients who:
cannot make decisions want to resolve conflicts cannot communicate easily are often sad, angry or anxious obsess about past relationships cannot defend themselves verbally	fall in love with unhealthy people procrastinate and miss opportunities feel inadequate, undeserving or guilty feel limited by their parents or childhood don’t reach goals despite effort and capabilities want to create and maintain happy relationships

We coach people to understand and change their lives. We help people change unwanted habits and make difficult decisions. We do not solve problems for people - that's for parents and social workers. Nor are we specialists in statistics - that's psychology. We don't diagnose disease nor advocate drugs - that's medicine. We leave religion to priests, judgments to judges and philosophy to gurus.

I never experienced better mentorship in my life. It was life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to improve quality of private and business life. Stephen Werft MA, Management Consultant / Trainer, Croatia

We help people dissolve blocks and get what they want!

Here are the Steps ... 1.  Do you seek coaching or therapy?  Check this table. 2.  Are you coachable?  Answer these questions 3.  Select a coach and make appointments 4.  Pay  for  our  time  and  experience  5.  Contact us at the agreed times 6.  Review what you learned 7.  Follow your plan! 8. Feedback

Step 1) Do you want Coaching, Therapy or Mentorship?

What you don’t know can harm you! Sometimes, the hardest part of changing is knowing exactly where are you now in your life, where do you want to be and how to get there from here. Then, when you are ready to accept coaching or mentorship, who can you trust?

Do you try to force yourself into a better life by reading self-help articles and books? Self-help strategies usually seem simple and easy ... if the strategies are effective and if you can follow the strategies properly. Some popular self-help strategies may worsen your relationships and lead to depression.

We can help you explore your life, define your goals and choose appropriate steps. Our quality coaching can help you create and achieve a worthwhile future, while therapy is more for healing past events. This table is adapted from the book Therapist as Life Coach by Dr Patrick Williams:

Our professional mentorship is for helping professionals who use or would like to use a systemic methodology as  well as for people who want ongoing assistance, support or collaboration.

Step 2) We cannot help everybody

Why not get to know us through our articles, public talks and seminars? Let's Connect Hearts and Minds - we can meet online at our Facebook Community or we can use Skype to learn a little about each another. Why not check how well we can work together?

We help people clarify, manage and change their lives, and sort out blocks to happiness and success. One of us can be your professional coach, your devil's advocate, sounding board, provocateur, mentor and friend. We can help you choose your life goals, define plans, manage emotions, solve problems and clarify relationships. We can help you get what you want.