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Marriage & Weddings on Big Island Hawaii

with Aunty Maile - native Hawaiian minister

Do you dream of a Hawaiian Wedding?

Can you imagine a tropical wedding that you forever remember with joy? Consider Hawaii! Consider a Hawaiian wedding on Big Island, Hawaii. Big Island has everything you want - and especially romance.

Image - Anaehoomalu Listen to the surf on white, black and green sand beaches. Enjoy fern forests near an active volcano! Experience the tranquility of a bird-filled Hawaiian forest. Exchange your wedding vows as Hawaii’s gentle winds perfume the air with fragrant tropical flowers.

Your Wedding on a Beach? in a Garden? in a Forest?

The Big Island of Hawaii has many beautiful beaches. How about the famous Hapuna Beach, on Big Island's sunny west shore, or a remote beach such as Kealakekua - between the old Hikiau temple and the famous cliffs. You can choose any of Hawaii's gorgeous white sand beaches ... consider Mauna Lani or Mauna Kea beach for your Hawaii wedding. We can help you find a wonderful place to host your wedding ceremony.

How about the grounds of one of our beautiful beach hotels? Or do you prefer a more rugged and more natural location? Ask for what YOU want. How about the hills around Waimea, in the center of the island? Or even on the world's biggest volcano.

Sunrise? Sunset? High Noon?

Describe your perfect wedding and we'll look after the details. Do you want old Hawaiian ruins? Lots of trees? Green lawns? White sand? Some of the most perfect places are in tourist locations - and others are remote and require a 4WD vehicle ... if you tell us your dream, we can help you make it real.

Romantic Renewal - Exchange Vows

Perhaps you are already married (to each other) and wish to renew your vows. Or perhaps your original ceremony was in a drab legal office and you want a touching romantic ceremony. If you wish, we can help you make this wonderful event a romantic surprise for your partner.

Your Hawaiian Minister

Image - Maile Your Minister is Aunty Maile Napoleon. She is a non-denominational minister and also a native Hawaiian kupuna (respected elder) and a teacher of traditional Hawaiian arts.

Premarital or Marriage Coaching

Before your wedding, you can, if you wish, have couple coaching to end bonds with past partners, old trauma, inner conflicts and other emotional or relationship events that may prevent you from enjoying your marriage. We recommend Soulwork premarital coaching and evaluating partnership.

Honeymoon Plans? Accommodation? Jeep Rental?

Do you want luxury or budget? We can help you have the honeymoon that you want - whether in a luxury hotel or a tent. If you want a luxury hotel - there are plenty. If you want an quality B&B we recommend the Dragonfly Ranch in Honaunau - maybe ask for the Royal Hawaiian package and take the incredible Honeymoon Suite for a week. Or you can even enjoy an in-tents experience.

What is included? What is not?

We provide everything for a simple wedding ceremony for a simple fee. We can also arrange larger ceremonies to make your dream come true.

  1. A touching marriage ceremony in Waimea, North Kona or Kohala
  2. Two beautiful hand-made leis (traditional flower necklaces)
  3. Traditional Hawaiian blessing in Hawaiian and English (optional)
Options Price (US$)
Extra flower lei (each) $20
Fresh tropical fruit bowl $25
Hawaiian bridesmaids (each) $60
Hawaiian musician / singer (each) $120
Chauffeured luxury car ask
4WD rental (per day, insured) ask
Translator / Interpreter ask
Buffet Hawaiian meal ask
Full catering ask
Dragonfly Honeymoon - one week ask

We can help you arrange your marriage in Hawaii.

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

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