Do you want to manage
your emotions and solve relationship problems?
There are no limits to the happiness of healthy
nor to the suffering of unhealthy relationships!
You may like, respect or love someone very much, yet feel
unable to show it . You may want to work cooperatively, yet you may
feel rejected. You may want a partner, but no-one seems to return your
approaches. You may feel lonely in a crowd.
Relationships were always a mystery to me.
I thought they were mostly luck.
You helped me change my relationships with my parents and my partner,
and now we can solve sensitive emotional problems peacefully.
So many people take a do-it-yourself approach to
their life and use whatever free advice they can find. And
helping professionals often seem to assume that discussing
the past or defining their problems will magically help people mature.
How do people learn mature relationship skills? Many seem to think
that maturity is like graduating from high school, university
or military service, or that they will learn what they need from television
shows or popular music.
Developing Mature Relationship Skills
Relationship skills follow a hierarchy related to
maturity. If you stop maturing - at any age -
then your relationship skills remain at that age. You may relate like a child -
perhaps seeking adults to look after you. We
Put ELATION into your
We help people find relationship solutions - from
friendship to dating to marriage; from making friends to teamwork to creating community.
We can help you develop your relationship intelligence and change your
Learn how to change from singles to Soulmates - from groups
to top teams - and from conflicted families to community members.
We help people understand relationship dynamics, resolve conflicts and increase cooperation.
Good intentions are a good start to ending suffering, loneliness
and depression. We can train you to resolve emotional and relationship problems:
- Find motivation to change
- Resolve prior counseling damage
- Find congruence by resolving inner conflicts
- Find inspiration to build healthier relationships
- Find peace by clarifying current and past relationships
- Improve your life as you change
- Find lost resources as you resolve trauma and
- Find appropriate mentors as you repair mentor damage
"Friends" can range from casual acquaintances to
close companions. Good friends require effort - not luck.
Friendship requires appropriate attitudes and skills.
We can help you develop and improve your friendship skills and solve
problems with friends. This is a pre-requisite for effective teamwork,
happy partnership and mature parenthood. Many people were never taught how
to be friendly.
couple coaching can save you years of trial-and-terror. Good partnership
coaching helps you and your partner to build or improve double vision.
We coach couples to evaluate partnership, to manage relationship
problems, and to prepare for future challenges, while avoiding
- compare and share values
- rebuild a joyous relationship
- change toxic relationship habits
- stop repeating your parents' habits
- manage the consequences of affairs
- clean up past partnerships and romances
You helped us examine the consequences
of our beliefs and assumptions.
You helped us tell each other our points
of view and our feelings. Then we
could find solutions that were
invisible before our sessions. London
We help people resolve abandonment, betrayal and trauma. We offer
premarital coaching to prepare for long-term commitment - and
to help some people peacefully disconnect and rebuild their lives apart.
Soulwork Family Skills for Happy Families (Systems 9)
Families are like intimate teams! We coach family members to define their needs
and to examine family conflicts as shared problems - and to find shared solutions.
Family Coaching helps all family members.
Raising children to adulthood demands years of loving
patience. Many parents are not prepared for parenthood - our
Parent Coaching can help parents. (See
Learning Disabilities, Parental Alienation
and Children of Divorce).
- Solve relationship problems
- Dissolve relationship conflicts
- Compare values and requirements
- Clarify past and present relationships
- Find their own solutions to future problems
- Benefit from individual coaching as required
Soulwork Team Skills for Team Spirit
(Systems 10: Team Training)
Our team coaching can help people work together to achieve goals that
they cannot achieve alone. We coach team members support and protect
each other! We coach leaders to identify and organize relationship
resources and to get feedback.
Team coaching includes the formation of new teams, maintaining teams,
training team leaders and dissolving teams. This includes:
- Define team objectives
- Plan for an unknown future
- Select new team members
- Define task content and priorities
- Define team leader's role and tasks
- Dissolve hidden agendas and other objections
Online Relationship Coaching,
Counseling & Soulwork Therapy
I thought you were just
another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
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