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Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

Do you seek coaching, interactive training and mentorship on partnership,
systemic management, resolving emotional problems and better relationships?

Resources for Coaching Change

Your development requires your resources, and if you can access your resources, little can stop you fulfilling your goals and making your dreams come true. Some common resources are:

  1. MOTIVATION to do whatever it takes (carrots and sticks)

  2. AWARENESS of what is going on (reality and consequences)

  3. COURAGE to design your future (sometimes challenging blocks)

  4. KNOWLEDGE about how to get from here to where you want to be


Define and achieve personal and professional goals

  • Find Clarity by resolving relationship problems
  • Find Balance by evaluating and dissolving conflicts
  • Find Peace by resolving "guilt" issues from the past
  • Find Freedom by knowing and dissolving limiting beliefs
  • Find Motivation by identifying and resolving emotional trauma
  • Find Inspiration by recognizing and replacing toxic role models


Enrich and enjoy personal and professional relationships

  • Enrich Family relationships by clarifying family responsibilities
  • Enrich Friendship relationships by clarifying personal values
  • Enrich Team relationships by clarifying co-operative goals
  • Enrich Parenthood relationships by replacing toxic family traditions
  • Enrich Partnership relationships by clarifying how partners wish to love
  • Enrich Community relationships by resolving cultural and religious conflicts
  • Enrich Business relationships by integrity interviewing, negotiating and selling
  • Enrich Organization relationships by redefining management communication
  • Enrich Global relationships by cross-cultural coaching for international workers


Learn and use effective coaching and training

  • Use Relationship Diagnosis to assess and predict emotional problems
  • Use Relationship Clarification to coach people to untangle relationships
  • Use Goal Diagnosis to assess and predict steps (and blocks) to success
  • Use Goal Coaching to coach people to define and plan their goals
  • Use Conflict Resolution to coach people to find life direction
  • Use Belief Changework to coach people to replace toxic beliefs
  • Use Trauma Resolution to coach people to manage limiting emotions
  • Use Expert Modeling to coach people to improve their performance
  • Use Mentorship to coach people to find and value inspirational role models


Share the benefits

  • Individual Coaching coaches individuals to solve relationship problems
  • Friendship Coaching coaches people to build and maintain friendships
  • Couple Coaching coaches two people to manage their challenges
  • Team Coaching coaches team members to work together
  • Family Coaching coaches family members to support each other
  • Parenthood Coaching coaches parents to develop their parenting skills
  • Business Coaching coaches planning, negotiating, selling and interviewing
  • Refugee Coaching coaches refugees and immigrants to create new lives
  • Organizational Coaching coaches HR staff and management in leadership
  • Community Coaching coaches communities to co-exist with other communities
  • Global Citizenship coaches people to prepare for international co-operation

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email