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Chaos, Coaching and Therapy (2)
Systemic Solutions © Martyn Carruthers

Continued from: Creative Chaos in Coaching and Therapy (1)

You can apply many features of chaos theory to your subjective experience of objective reality - to your "map of the world". Your life reflects a complex phase space, with vast enfolded information, and an organizing principle, human identity. You can change identity to survive and thrive in a changed reality.

Creative Chaos in Coaching & Psychotherapy (2)

On the edge of chaos, when nothing makes sense and everything is possible, miracles can happen. But waiting for a miracle is rarely enough. Survival requires transformation - a change in identity. A new identity will generate new values and beliefs, and support behavior that is appropriate to the changed environment.

Organized Chaos (Martyn Carruthers 2004)

Chaos & Consciousness

Even simple systems become chaotic as they approach limits. Rocks in a desert are eroded into unpredictable shapes. Ethics become flexible under stress.

As in the Buddhist Diamond Sutra, chaos can be found in order, and order in chaos. The organizing principle is the key. The organizing principle used in Systemic Solutions is an experience of integrity - a stable experience of connectedness, integration and purpose - an experience of self-as-system that does not diminish with passing time.

Diamond Sutra (Buddha)

Form is emptiness, and the very emptiness is form; emptiness does not differ from form, form does not differ from emptiness; whatever is form, that is emptiness; whatever is emptiness, that is form. The same is true of feelings, perceptions, impulses and consciousness.

When approaching integrity, most people describe a predictable series of non-ordinary realities that seem to represent undifferentiated consciousness. As in chaos theory, these experiences can be characterized as non-linear, self-generating and self-organizing. (Some people liken these experiences to fractals, describing endless complexity within tiny details of experience.)

Soul of Soulwork . Psychobiology

Transformation in Chaos

  1. Recognize your goal or crisis
  2. Evaluate your "model of the world"
  3. Define exactly what you want
  4. Experience your emotions
  5. Examine your limits
  6. Experience your identity
  7. Enter paradox and confusion
  8. Experience complexity and chaos
  9. Let a renewed identity emerge
  10. Enjoy renewed consciousness

Bifurcation (Moving fractal)

Chaos is fundamental to life - and to death. Sooner or later chaos will force you beyond your limits - and you either evolve or disintegrate. A crisis presents an opportunity to dissolve old habits and create an identity better adapted to your changed environment. If you adapt, you survive. If you adapt well, you thrive. If you do not adapt, you suffer and perhaps die. Within chaos, between sanity and insanity, you can regenerate your identity, beliefs and behavior.

Although associated with health and healing, our systemic coaching makes no heroic searches for cures. Soulwork does not try to "get rid of" symptoms. If you behave in ways that create suffering, you can choose to change the "you" that chooses your behaviors.

If instead you can assimilate the phase space that contains both chaos and order, you can manifest an identity - a "new you" - in alignment with your chosen mission or purpose. (This is easier to demonstrate than to describe!)

Human Identity is a Process

Every Hawaiian knows that the volcano goddess, Pele, destroys old land to create new land. Many governments are created in revolutions. Order can be renewed in chaos.

Nonlinear Dynamics

We are open systems in constant interaction with our environment. While closed systems can reach equilibrium, open systems allow unpredictable oscillation and stability. Open systems are organized by attractors, which can provide identities within sufficiently complex systems.

If, in a complex system, an identity (organizing principle) becomes obsolete, the system degenerates into chaos - unless or until another identity emerges. In a human system, a different identity will differently evaluate relationships, find different solutions and differently control behaviors.

If you are afraid to let go of your beliefs, or if you identify with your beliefs, they become your limits. If you are comfortable only within your beliefs, you may fear whatever might move you beyond them. But stability is temporary. Sooner or later, life will push you into unknown territory.

Chaos coaching does not defend you against complexity - instead it accelerates and intensifies your movement through chaos. If you abandon your old limits (phase transition) - you lose yourself to gain a new sense of life. A new identity (strange attractor) can organize order in chaos. Your new reference experience of self, your new identity, can re-organize your relationships within your environment.

The I of the Cyclone

As tiny differences in initial conditions can lead to enormous differences in effect, creating a seed of a new human identity is a significant event. A question to initiate transition can be, "What do you want?". Answers can lead, step by step, to a core desire ... a life goal ... a mission. Then transformation makes sense. Fulfillment is worth any effort. If you have a mission to fulfill, you will always take the next step.

Images of fractal shapes illustrate the manifestations of strange attractors within complex environments. Your new identity can organize an infinite number of potential behaviors, which can unfold following the patterns of your identity.

Your identity organizes your behavior within your environment, until your identity reaches its limits. When that crisis occurs, you either regenerate a core identity or you suffer the consequences, which may be result in disease, depression, anxiety or rage ... or even the cessation of identity in suicide.

Common consequences of clinging to limiting beliefs include:

  • Age Regression: You demand that the world follow your childish expectations
  • Emotional Stress: You experience overwhelming anger, sadness and fear
  • Relationship Chaos: You develop toxic relationship and communication skills
  • Addictions, Compulsions & Obsessions: You attempt distraction and escape
  • Depression: You retreat from a life that does not make sense
  • Relationship Bonds: You identify with other people's limiting beliefs
  • Lost Identity: You lose access to and use of your core identity
  • Identifications: You identify with another person
  • Identity Conflict: You embody a conflict between two or more other persons

Chaos coaching can guide you through this. As in a super-saturated solution, a seed crystal of your congruent desire provides a nucleus for a new core identity - a new organizing principle for the conscious life that you automatically express in your thoughts, beliefs and all parts of life.

If you rebuild your identity while focused on a well-formed outcome, a congruent life goal, your "new identity" can focus your behavior on your chosen mission.

"On the the next steps, I experienced confusion, disorientation and my sense of "me" was like sugar dissolved in water. I was totally "here", feeling connected to all people. I experienced an almost unbearable sense of potential in which everything, absolutely everything, was possible. I felt that I was assisting my own birth." MT Boston, Mass

Unexpected Fractal Patterns (Martyn Carruthers, 2004)

Altered States

As tiny differences in initial conditions can make vast differences in the subsequent behavior of a system, care is taken to focus on a single, positive, congruent goal. Focusing on two conflicting goals can produce two attractors ... in conflict (identity conflict). Focusing on somebody else's goal can produce an attractor based on that role model (identification). A negative goal (E.g. "I don't want ...") may not produce an attractor (lost identity).

Your journey leads to a sense of connectedness and integration, the Soul of Soulwork. You are not separate from the universe, you are part of it. You reflect the whole and you are connected with the whole. Many people describe this experience as transcendental.

You can make space for a new identity and for new life patterns that support your chosen mission.

During a phase transition, chaos can manifest a new core identity. After this timeless moment, you may perceive your old beliefs as strange memories. You can create new ways to interact with your environment, in alignment with the crystalline seed of your new identity - your congruent purpose or mission. The patterns set by your new identity spontaneously appear throughout your behavior.

Fractal Loops (Martyn Carruthers, 2003)

We invite you to join us in this technology of consciousness.

Chaos Theory - part 1 . Soul of Soulwork . Psychobiology of Soul

Note: Our focus on multiple relationships in complex systems can complement the pre-systemic fixation of trying to understand the world by statistical evaluation.

We offer effective coaching, coach training and mentorship. We train people to coach individuals, partners and teams to resolve emotional, educational and relationship challenges.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2005-2010 All rights reserved


Chaotic References

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Elka, Goldbeter and Goldbeter-Merinfeld (1987). Analysis of the dynamics of a family system in terms of bifurcations. Journal of Social and Biological Structures, 10.
Gampel (1991). Fractal selves, the fragility of relationships, and chaos theory. Paper presented at the Conference for the Society for Chaos Theory in Psychology
Goerner (1994). Chaos and the evolving ecological universe: A study in the science and human implications of a new world hypothesis. New York: Gordon & Breach.
Lewin (1951). Field theory in social science. New York: Harper & Row.
Loye (1983). The sphinx and the rainbow: Brain, mind and future vision. Shambala.
Mandell (1980). Toward a psychobiology of transcendence: God in the brain. In RJ Davidson and JM Davidson, The psychobiology of consciousness. New York: Plenum.
Prigogine and Stengers (1984). Order out of chaos. New York: Bantam.
Rossi (1989). Archetypes as strange attractors.
Psychological Perspectives, 20
Schwalbe (1991). The autogenesis of the self. Journal for the Theory of Social Behavior
Swinney (1991). Chaos consciousness in psychotherapy. Presented at the Conference for the Society for Chaos Theory in Psychology, San Francisco.

 

 
 

 

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