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The Relationship Coaching Institute

Lucid Dreams & Systemic Coaching

Telephone Coaching with Martyn Carruthers

We offer telephone coaching and quality training on systemic family coaching, dreams & dreaming, family secrets and relationship happiness. Email us if you might want a workshop.

Are You a Dreamer? ... Dream Coaching

(Dream coaching (Dreamwork) is fully explored during Systems 3,
and is integrated into subsequent Soulwork coach training (Systems 4 -10).

Dreaming may be older than human consciousness. You can watch sleeping babies and sleeping animals move their limbs and body, and make unusual sounds. Your dreams may seem to assimilate or integrate events and to evaluate your future possibilities. Dreams are one way that you make sense of your world, comparing your experiences with your memories. Many books have been written about analyzing the content of dreams, as if your unconscious mind uses the same symbols as the author, regardless of your history, family and cultural background.

Dreaming

When one person wants personal success, he may dream alone; while when more people are involved, they can learn to dream together  Teresa Mocna (Soulwork graduate)

Daydreams & Visualization

Can you imagine yourself lying on a beach enjoying the sun or perhaps walking in the mountains on a crisp morning? Can you daydream and picture yourself in places you'd like to go to, or doing things you enjoy or have always wanted to try?

Athletes often do this before a competition. They imagine themselves skiing a hill or moving through their gymnastic movements. They see themselves doing each move perfectly and winning an award.

The Harvard Business School surveyed recent graduates about their goals and again ten years later. Graduates with clear goals were making two to ten times the income of their classmates. This is directed daydreaming.

Hawaiian Dream-time: Moe Uhane

For the healing kahuna of old Hawaii, unusual or recurring dreams were considered significant, and worthy of exploration. To better recover the details of a dream, and to find the meanings, a kahuna might join a person within a dream. Hawaiian dreamwork is called "moe uhane" - dreams of the spirit or lucid dreaming - and is a potent key to open the door of Hawaiian Spirituality.

We have thoroughly explored and extended this concept since 1988, and we developed useful methods for using dreams for coaching, psychotherapy and personal development. Soulwork Dream Coaching requires a deep respect for people. Our responses are persistently and phenomenally positive. People resolve unpleasant recurring dreams while making "dreaming" a wonderful activity. (Dream Coaching is integrated into Soulwork Systemic Coaching.)

Dreamscape & Nightmares

Rather than "intuition" or guessing, when a person asks for help, we may dream with that person - respectfully entering that person's dreamscape, with the intention of together understanding the often-confused imagery, while offering possibilities for integrating sub-personalities, dissolving relationship bonds or remedying unresolved trauma or PTSD that is expressed in dreams.

Systemic dream coaching provides a simple introduction to a rather complex topic and offers lasting solutions for unpleasant dreams and recurring nightmares.

Dream Coaching

Entering your dream can be like entering Pandora's Box. Neither you nor I know what to expect in your dream. Forget those books of interpretations of dream symbols. We often find that an event or symbol in your dream has more than one message or a different message than the "obvious". Dream Coaching is no place for arrogance!

Maybe you are simply curious about an unusual, repetitive or well remembered dream. If you have strong unpleasant emotions or if you have recurring dreams of misery, death or hideous monsters - perhaps contact a trained and experienced systemic coach. Lucid dreaming within a disturbed person's nightmare can be traumatic for the unskilled.

Dreamwork Case History

While teaching a class on "Dreamwork" at a university in Las Vegas, a female student asked to be a demonstration subject. She reported a recurrent dream of being chased by a vampire. During our lucid dream, instead of her running away in terror, we stood together, and chatted with the vampire. The vampire explained that he was a "keeper of power", and as the woman would not accept her own power, he followed her.

The vampire offered the woman his cloak - jet-black with bright red trim. She put on the cloak and felt immediately resourceful. She said that never before had she felt so powerful. The now-friendly vampire offered deep advice about the woman's lifestyle.

In the following week, the woman reported that she could easily access and maintain her powerful state. She soon made a series of beneficial changes in her family and personal relationships.

Do you want relationship coaching or systemic coach training? We can train you who coach individuals, partners and teams to resolve emotional, educational and relationship challenges.

We welcome friendly, emotionally stable people. Enhance your career with relationship coaching skills. Coach people to gain clarity, dissolve success and relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life. Help people build success and quality relationships. Help people fulfill their dreams.

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Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to resolve therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness and avoid partnership breakdown
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems and to set and enjoy family goals
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders to develop teams while solving team problems
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