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Systemic Solutions & Family Therapy

Systemic Solutions with Martyn Carruthers

Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer from your parents' drama, your partner's demands, your boss's moods? Soulwork Systemic Solutions can help you untangle your life ... and you can help other people reclaim their freedom.

Soulwork Approach to Systemic Family Therapy

The Soulwork approach integrates many family therapy approaches while stepping onto new ground. Soulwork offers the convenience of an overall sequence that is both simple and profoundly deep. Utilizing a psychodynamic model of rapid relationship diagnosis, it combines experiential mini-interventions reminiscent of the Gestalt approach. Soulwork reflects elements of Virginia Satir's questioning, Gregory Bateson's work with schizophrenia, Bert Hellinger's Family Constellations, Frank Farelly's Provocative Therapy and Victor Frankl's Logotherapy - within a solution-focused frame.

Soulwork differs to other approaches by its focus on integrity. This focus is supported by its unique systemic diagnosis and ways to quickly dissolve unwanted transferences, bonds and trauma. With integrity, Soulwork can can quickly defuse many toxic relationship situations.

Relationship Diagnosis . Emotional Maturity . Family Coaching

Integrity

Integrity, in Soulwork, is described as an transcendent experience of integration and connectedness. IExperiences of integrity are a primary systemic coaching goal, as these experiences will enable a rapid dissolution of transferences, bonds and trauma.

  • The phenomena of transference is applied in Soulwork to dissolve six forms of mistaken identity that lead to unjustified irritation and anger
  • Relationship bonds represent beliefs that compel compliant behavior
  • "Paint by numbers" trauma techniques may precipitate relationship problems.

Soulwork Systemic Coaching is primarily for motivated and responsible adults who can consider the benefits and consequences of actions or lack of action - and then make decisions. It is not for brain damaged, dysfunctional or immature people.

Therapeutic Coaching> . Coaching . Training . Individual Flowchart

Systemic Family Therapy: Flowcharts

Soulwork systemic coaching offers people a series of choices; with estimates of time and the likely consequences of those choices. Each client chooses solutions from a series of coaching contracts. The following flowchart offers an overview of the evaluation phase of systemic family therapy.

Phase 1 Family Coaching Flowchart  Removed - email us

During phase 2 of Soulwork systemic family therapy, each member of the family is offered choices for how to continue. The resulting discussion allows a family to formulate their unique solutions to resolve their problems and to reach their goals.

Phase 2 Family Coaching Flowchart

Phase 3 of Soulwork systemic family therapy allows each member of a family system to evaluate and change the structure of family and external relationships.

Phase 3 Family Coaching Flowchart

Do you want relationship coaching or systemic coach training? We can train you to coach individuals, couples and teams to resolve a wide range of emotional, mental and relationship challenges.

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We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.