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1995: Who are we if we are not our bodies,
nor our self-talk? Who are we if we are not our memories, nor our
expectations? We attempted to address the abstractions of human experience,
asking, "What are the organizing principles around which we live?" Our
answer is that these organizing principles are non-verbal experiences
of integrated connectedness. We cannot describe them; although we generally
all them aspects of Integrity or Soul.
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While
investigating the care and nurturing of Soul, we realized that the
experience integrity seems to integrate all values, actualized and potential, in a
harmonic and dynamic whole, providing
simultaneous inspiration, motivation and guidance. Soul experience underlies
the philosophy of Soul Centered Changework and the applications called
Soulwork Systemic Coaching.
Summary of Identity (Vision) levels 1-6
This article is part 3 of 3, using Gregory Bateson's
“logical types” and Clare Graves’ work sometimes called "spiral dynamics" as models for
understanding the evolution of human behavior.
Part
1 describes the first three types of identity “from the inside out” in a developmental
sequence,
Part 2 describes the central three types and this describes the final
three levels that we know about.
Vision State 7: I Connect Systems
I live independently within a connected world. I develop by learning and experiencing new things. I explore
ways to bring meaning to my life and the lives of others. I enjoy exploring
relationships and I enjoy the freedom to be and to do as I choose.
I want to do
better, yet I am not ambitious; I compare myself today against myself yesterday. I
esteem your competence and reason yet I question your authority and your rules. I
respect your learning and experience and not your power, dogma, status or
allegiance. I like to succeed and I can learn from failure and feedback. I can
defend myself and I am not defensive. I am flexible and motivated, and I enjoy
paradox and ambiguity. I want to be competent, and once competent I may move on.
Look for me
emerging into main stream thinking in Europe and North America. See me in
environmental science and cybernetics. Find me writing books, plays, poetry and
biographies. Look for me teaching management science and philosophy. See me in
architecture and engineering design. Find me in systemic coaching.
At my worst I am
intolerant, ignoring the outer world and immersing myself in my inner world. I
may become addicted to information or lose myself in interesting ideas. I may take psychoactive drugs
to distract and explore myself.
At my best I am
adaptable and practical. I enjoy using different learning experiences to increase the quality of my life.
I am project centered and I can work independently. My organization
must respond appropriately to our changing world. Our projects must provide practical long term results on
many levels. Our project is more important than your status and your feelings. The
most competent person should manage each part of our project.
Be a model of competence. Show me how much I can learn and how
my work will benefit others on many levels. Ensure that I have the right
resources and training. I can communicate with anybody who has resources I need.
Ask me for my ideas and listen to me. I enjoy creating integrated practical
models. I need to do my part well.
I resent
unnecessary paperwork and unwieldy procedures. I am frustrated by inefficiency,
superficial solutions, short term planning, insignificant details and
ineffectual methods. Above all, I am stressed by incompetent superiors and
untrustworthy co-workers.
If you are my manager - do not try to
force your rules onto me. Do not withhold important information. Do not be
petty, punitive or waste my time. Do not make my work boring and repetitive. Do not interfere with
my right to be or to learn. I accept that you have your compulsions, perceptions
and values, but I may not accept them for myself.
My religion
teaches me interesting things and offers a variety of experiences. I may change
religions often. I choose my own ethics and I rarely condemn the ethics of others.
I can learn from any situation. I have many diverse interests
and I may not know my goals. I rarely compete or strive to please others. Be
motivated and challenge me. Coach me and give me useful information, materials and experiences. I will use
whatever I can. I want to learn at my own pace. I am flexible and I want variety.
Give me feedback so that I may improve. I may accept your bonuses - and I reward
myself.
Sometimes I would
like to contribute more to this beautiful and troubled planet. Sometimes I
long to participate in complex long-term global projects.
Vision State 7 slogan: "Learn to be Free!"
Vision State 8: Our Planet must Survive!
Our world is a
living entity jeopardized by short sighted fixes to fundamental problems. We
must find and implement global solutions to ensure our survival. I will work
with you to eliminate war, poverty, hunger, disease and oppression. I am a
global citizen.
I ignore political
barriers and join global networks to find and implement global solutions. I seek
order beneath the apparent chaos. We need a new world order that enriches both
individuals and communities.
Look for us
balancing needs and resources. Find us in global charities and relief agencies.
Look for us in the United Nations. Find us in the Bahai religion. Look for us in
World Peace organizations. See us in environmental sciences. Find us teaching
your teachers. Join us!
At our worst we
dream of unrealistic utopias. At our best we contribute to the welfare and
survival of our planet as visionary leaders.
Look at life from a global perspective and see each creature as a
hologram of our planet. Integrate our interests and ideals so that we may find
and work towards a common Vision. Integrate practical and spiritual concepts to
enhance global information flow. Use insights from any time or place to preserve
and renew our world.
Manage and
motivate me by convincing me how your project assists our world. Then give me
the resources, and let's move mountains!
Help me
co-ordinate multi-level projects. Help me evolve my concepts of a global Vision.
Let us work to broaden awareness and set an example!
I am not motivated
by respect, security, personal success, recognition or learning, but I can use
any of these resources in global projects.
I am stressed by
self-serving compulsions. Do not deny reality. Do not enforce short-sighted
prejudices. Do not support ideological or political conflict. Do not make
excuses. Above all, do not harm living systems.
We want to
integrate the religious needs of all societies into an effective, practical
whole-Earth spirituality, so we may share wisdom and feedback about the current
and future needs and resources of our planet.
I learn rationally
and intuitively from all experiences. I contemplate my learning at many levels
to find congruent outcomes. I integrate my learning with international networks
to benefit our world.
Sometimes I
experience oneness with all there is. Sometimes all there is, is love.
Vision State 9: We are Connected!
Our universe is
aware. Everything is totally independent yet totally connected to all that is.
Being human is a self-aware way to experience love. I can use or abandon any
human way of expressing love. I represent a universal system that connects us
all. I am fascinated by all life.
Every statement I
make is true. All truth is paradox. My words represent shifting ideas. My
definitions change whatever I define. Every statement I make is false.
I acknowledge our
essence: our essence is love. We can build our lives on this foundation. We are
limitless children of the universe, and we are the universe, and we are much
more.
Look for me
organizing religions and waiting on tables. See me raising my children and
teaching yours. Look for me writing books and running large corporations. Look
for me in art, hear me in music, read me in poetry and feel me in joy. Find me
everywhere.
At my worst I am a
hermit and I may not notice you. At my best I am a prophet and I may inspire
you.
Everything is a
hologram of our universe. I integrate our interests and ideals. I experience
spirituality on many levels and may use insights from any time or place so that
we may all live love. I do not strive for personal enlightenment and yet it may
be the only measurement of progress.
I am not motivated
by power, dogma, status, recognition, learning or even global harmony, but I can use
these resources to share my love with you.
Be all you
experience. Heal conflicts, hate and fear with love. Relate and network with me.
We can integrate the religious needs of all societies into a universal
spirituality. Let us live and teach this Vision.
Sometimes I want
to create miracles and perform instant healing ... Sometimes I want to spare
people the effort of realizing who they are...
Copyright © June 1995, 2005
Martyn Carruthers & Janelle Doan
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We hope you find these descriptions useful.
Researching them was instructive to us, and we now find it easier to
appreciate and communicate with people in Identity States different
to our own, and this is part of our Systemic Coach Training.
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Soulwork 1 |
Understand relationship systems & deal with guilt |
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Soulwork 2 |
How to define goals, resolve objections & plan for success
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Soulwork 3 |
End self-criticism & inner conflict to recover integrity |
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Soulwork 4 |
How to recover identity loss; missing qualities, expertise and skills |
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Soulwork 5 |
How to dissolve relationship bonds for healthy relationships |
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Soulwork 6 |
Dissolve emotional trauma and rebuild motivation |
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Soulwork 7 |
How to end mentor damage & find inspirational mentorship |
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Soulwork 8 |
Coach couples and partners simultaneously |
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Soulwork 9 |
Coach teams and team leaders simultaneously |
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Soulwork 10 |
Coach whole families simultaneously |
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