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The Relationship Coaching Institute

Sexual Solutions: Impotence & Frigidity

Advanced Systemic Solutions with Martyn Carruthers

Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer from your parents' drama, your partner's demands, your boss's moods? Soulwork Systemic Solutions can help you untangle your life ... and you can help other people reclaim their freedom.

Partnership Problems

Male impotence and female frigidity are common partnership problems, describing an inability to enjoy normal sexual activity, or experience the pleasure of orgasm. These sexual dysfunctions may have relationship or emotional causes. Many sexual dysfunctions represent relationship issues.

Some sex dysfunctions can be resolved for the long term with Soulwork systemic coaching. If ignored, sexual problems can increase the likelihood of a partner's sexual affairs or divorce.

Common causes include emotional incest, promiscuous behavior, unresolved past partners, affairs and abortions. The emotional causes of sexual dysfunction include:

(Note: the only people that we have met with Freud's "classic" Oedipus, Electra and penis envy complexes had attended psychoanalysis or been trained in psychodynamic therapy).

Sexual Dysfunction

As sexual dysfunction often reflects emotional conflicts, Soulwork coaching has helped many people. Specific physical conditions predisposing sexual dysfunction can be treated medically. Sexual dysfunctions that respond to systemic coaching include:

  • Hypersexuality (sexual addiction) - constant sexual arousal;
  • Hyposexuality (inhibited sexual excitement) - sexual arousal only with difficulty;
  • Anorgasmia - inability to achieve orgasm despite normal sexual stimulation;
  • Vaginismus - a woman's vaginal muscles contract during intercourse;
  • Dyspareunia - a woman experiences significant pain during intercourse;
  • Premature ejaculation - a man ejaculates before or shortly after entering a vagina;
  • Ejaculatory impotence (inhibited male orgasm) - a man cannot achieve orgasm in a vagina (although he can sustain an erection and may reach orgasm by other methods);
  • Erectile dysfunction - a man cannot sustain an erect penis.

Male Impotence

Approximately 10 percent of all men will one day be unable to achieve or maintain an erection. A man who cannot maintain an erect penis is unable to participate fully in sexual intercourse.

  • The most common risk factors for impotence are anxiety, stress or relationship conflicts.
  • Some drugs have side effects that can contribute to impotence. These include diuretics, tricyclic antidepressants, beta-blockers, and hormones.
  • Physical causes of impotence include trauma and disease such as: diabetes; pelvic surgery; spinal injury; glandular problems and multiple sclerosis.

Erectile dysfunction may be expressed in early adolescence as an inability to achieve erection; but more  commonly consists of adult onset after years of normal function.

Ejaculatory impotence is a male inability to ejaculate within a sexual partner's vagina. An erection may be maintained for long periods, even after the partner has achieved orgasm. Ejaculatory impotence usually has an emotional systemic (relationship) cause.

Viagra

Millions of men use Viagra to treat erectile impotence / erectile dysfunction.

Although Viagra has become a treatment of choice for erectile dysfunction;

  • Viagra cannot dissolve relationship conflicts or change emotional habits
  • Viagra side effects include facial flushes, headaches, gastrointestinal distress and a blue tinge to vision

Female Frigidity

A woman who is not aroused during sexual intercourse may be called frigid. Frigidity has three distinct symptoms:

  • does not enjoy sexual response (with a specific partner, or generally)
  • can achieve sexual arousal only with difficulty (hyposexuality)
  • cannot achieve orgasm (anorgasmia)

Female frigidity may be caused by emotional incest, trauma, vaginal spasms (vaginismus) or pain (dyspareunia) during attempted intercourse. As with men, female sexual response may be impaired by relationship and emotional causes, triggered by emotional conflicts, anxiety or other stresses.

Relationship Coaching

Left unresolved, sexual dysfunction increases the likelihood of symptoms associated with Depression. Soulwork coaching can help alleviate mental discomfort or sexual dysfunction, especially if the dysfunction involves strong emotions or difficult relationships.

Paradigm Shift - Systemic Coaching

Systemic Couple Coaching helps couples who suffer from  relationship and sexual problems that affect their partnership. Relationship Coaching helps partners overcome anxieties, conflicts and trauma.

Individual coaching can be provided for individuals without partners, or for people whose partners will not co-operate. This often focuses on resolving emotional conflicts and relationship trauma to improve all interactions, including sexual intimacy.

NOTE: Consult a physician regarding the applicability of any opinions or recommendations with respect to impotence, medical symptoms or medical conditions.

We provide effective coaching, coach training and mentorship. We train professional coaches to coach individuals, partners and teams to resolve a very wide range of emotional and relationship challenges.


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Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
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