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Are you entangled in difficult relationships
or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer from your
parents' drama, your partner's demands, your boss's moods? Soulwork Systemic
Solutions can help you untangle your life ... and you can help other
people reclaim their freedom.
Partnership Problems
Male impotence and female frigidity are common partnership
problems, describing an inability to enjoy normal sexual activity, or experience
the pleasure of orgasm. These sexual dysfunctions
may have relationship or emotional causes. Many sexual dysfunctions represent
relationship issues.
Some sex dysfunctions can be resolved for the long term with
Soulwork systemic coaching. If ignored, sexual problems can increase the likelihood of
a partner's
sexual affairs or divorce.
Common causes include
emotional incest, promiscuous behavior, unresolved past
partners, affairs and abortions. The emotional causes of sexual dysfunction include:
(Note: the only people that we have met with Freud's
"classic" Oedipus, Electra and penis envy
complexes had attended psychoanalysis or been trained in psychodynamic therapy).
Sexual Dysfunction
As sexual dysfunction often reflects emotional
conflicts, Soulwork coaching has helped many people. Specific physical
conditions predisposing sexual dysfunction can be treated medically. Sexual
dysfunctions that respond to systemic coaching include:
- Hypersexuality (sexual addiction) - constant sexual
arousal;
- Hyposexuality (inhibited sexual excitement) - sexual
arousal only with difficulty;
- Anorgasmia - inability to achieve orgasm despite
normal sexual stimulation;
- Vaginismus - a woman's vaginal muscles contract
during intercourse;
- Dyspareunia - a woman experiences significant pain
during intercourse;
- Premature ejaculation - a man ejaculates before or
shortly after entering a vagina;
- Ejaculatory impotence
(inhibited male orgasm) - a man cannot achieve orgasm in a vagina (although he
can sustain an erection and may reach orgasm by other methods);
- Erectile dysfunction - a man cannot sustain an
erect penis.
Male Impotence
Approximately 10 percent of all men will one day be unable to
achieve or maintain an erection. A man who cannot maintain an erect penis is
unable to participate fully in sexual intercourse.
- The most common risk factors for impotence are anxiety,
stress or relationship conflicts.
- Some drugs have side effects that can contribute to
impotence. These include diuretics, tricyclic antidepressants,
beta-blockers, and hormones.
- Physical causes of impotence include trauma and disease
such as: diabetes; pelvic surgery; spinal injury;
glandular problems and multiple sclerosis.
Erectile dysfunction may be expressed in early
adolescence as an inability to achieve erection; but more commonly
consists of adult onset after years of normal function.
Ejaculatory impotence is a male inability to ejaculate within a sexual
partner's vagina. An erection may be maintained for long periods, even after the
partner has achieved orgasm. Ejaculatory impotence usually has an emotional
systemic (relationship) cause.
Viagra
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Millions of men use Viagra to treat erectile impotence /
erectile dysfunction.
Although
Viagra has become a treatment of choice for erectile dysfunction;
- Viagra cannot dissolve relationship conflicts or change
emotional habits
- Viagra side effects include facial flushes, headaches,
gastrointestinal distress and a blue tinge to vision
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Female Frigidity
A woman who is not aroused during sexual intercourse may be
called frigid. Frigidity has three distinct symptoms:
- does not enjoy sexual response (with a specific partner, or
generally)
- can achieve sexual arousal only with difficulty (hyposexuality)
- cannot achieve orgasm (anorgasmia)
Female frigidity may be caused by
emotional incest,
trauma, vaginal spasms (vaginismus)
or pain (dyspareunia) during attempted intercourse. As with men, female sexual
response may be impaired by relationship and emotional causes, triggered by
emotional conflicts, anxiety or other stresses. Relationship Coaching
Left unresolved, sexual dysfunction increases the likelihood
of symptoms associated with Depression. Soulwork coaching can help alleviate mental discomfort or
sexual dysfunction, especially if the dysfunction involves strong emotions or
difficult relationships. Paradigm
Shift - Systemic Coaching Systemic Couple Coaching helps couples who suffer from
relationship and sexual problems that affect their partnership. Relationship Coaching helps partners overcome anxieties, conflicts and trauma.
Individual coaching can be provided for individuals
without partners, or for people whose partners will not co-operate. This often
focuses on resolving emotional conflicts and relationship trauma to improve all
interactions, including sexual intimacy. NOTE: Consult a
physician regarding the applicability of any opinions or recommendations with
respect to impotence, medical symptoms or medical conditions.
We provide effective coaching, coach training
and mentorship. We train professional coaches to coach individuals, partners and
teams to resolve a very wide range of emotional and relationship challenges.
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