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Individual Coaching for Emotional & Relationship Blocks
Jan Sikorksi

Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

We offer private sessions and professional training on family constellations,
couple counseling, dissolving family chaos and healthy relationships.

Classic coaching is fine for people who want to achieve simple goals and manage personal complaints that do not require the acceptance, approval or permission of other people.

Soulwork coaching & counseling is for people who want to achieve complex goals in an uncertain environment - especially goals which involve other people.

Systemic Couple Coaching includes skills for Partnership Coaching, Marriage and Divorce Coaching, Team Coaching etc. Couple Coaching is to achieve partnership goals and manage partnership complaints that do not require the acceptance, approval or permission of people outside the partnership. Family Coaching includes skills for Parenting, Teenagers, Learning Disabilities, etc.

Professional training includes Couple Coaching; Family Coaching; Team Coaching, Community Coaching and Trainer Training.

Examples of Individual Coaching Sessions

Success Coaching Therapeutic Coaching Spiritual Coaching
Expert Performance Health Coaching Spiritual Progress
Academic Coaching Mental Health Coaching Esoteric Coaching
Interview Coaching Identity Coaching Exit Coaching
Executive Coaching Post-Abortion Coaching Preparing for Death

Individual Coaching

Some questions we often ask at the start of our individual coaching are:

  1. What do you want?
  2. Where are you now?
  3. What could stop you?
  4. How do you want to get it?
  5. What would empower you?

Exploring and answering these deceptively simple questions will help you evaluate your life and explore your goals. The questions seem easy ... yet the answers to these questions are often profound.

If your goal is to change another person's perspective, habits, beliefs or values - coaching can either include that person - or we can teach you to coach other people.

We do not support manipulative, coercive or criminal behavior.
We do not support goals that hurt children


Is Our Online Life Coaching for you ...?

Do you want to:
  • Dissolve emotional problems?
  • Control psychosomatic symptoms?
  • Dissolve limiting beliefs?
  • Change traumatic reactions?
  • Control disease symptoms?
  • Control stress or anger?
Do you want to:
  • End relationship problems?
  • Resolve emotional incest?
  • Relax obsessions?
  • End compulsions?
  • Prevent learning disabilities?
  • Control depression?
Do you want:
  • Better emotional intelligence?
  • Better relationship skills?
  • Increase sense of life?
  • Accelerated learning?
  • Choose a new career?
  • Duplicate expert behavior?
  • Material success?
  • Exciting experiences?
  • Good health?
  • Contented retirement?
Do you want:
  • To know what you want?
  • Relationship clarity?
  • Resolve guilt?
  • Dissolve conflicts?
  • Integrate your identity?
  • Experience integrity?
  • Dissolve relationship bonds?
  • Dissolve emotional trauma?
  • Find inspirational mentors?
  • The joy of meaningful life?

Do you want coaching, counseling or coach training?
Contact us to manage success, emotional and relationship blocks

Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

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Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii


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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email