Benefit today from online helping professionals.
Online Counseling & Internet Therapy
Online counseling is not so different from office visits.
Much of our online help can be as effective as if you visited
our offices, and you probably have other uses for your time,
energy and traveling expenses. You can benefit from our internet coaching to solve
many emotional problems, build healthy relationship and improve your
Since 1988 we have trained many coaches, therapists and alternative
therapists, medical doctors and consultants in our systems coaching.
Over this time we have amassed huge experience about mental health solutions
for emotional problems and how to build all kinds of healthy relationships
- at home and at work.
We never stop improving our counseling tools!
Do you want to stop wasting time and energy? Do you want to recognize
relationship problems early and solve them before they become
crisis? We help people move on in life with a helping hand, and
occasionally with a helping foot.
We only promise what we believe we can deliver.
We let our experience speak to us as well as to you.
We can discuss every solution before applying it.
We have distilled years of experience of teaching and coaching in a wide
variety of human relationships: using therapeutic coaching, organizational
consulting, expert modeling and business trouble-shooting. Much of this
information applies equally to relationship coaching, management
consulting and corporate coaching.
Coaching or Therapy?
You choose. Basically, life coaching is more for people
who are goal directed and action based; relationship counseling
is more for couples who want to improve their
partnership, and systems coaching is more for families and teams.
This table is adapted from Therapist
as Life Coach: Transforming Your Practice
by Dr. Patrick Williams.
For healthy people who desire better situations
||For patients with
Deals mostly with a personís goals and blocks
and seeks to help people create better futures
Deals mostly with a patient's past trauma,
and seeks to heal people
Helps people learn new skills and tools
to build more satisfying successful futures
Helps patients manage old pain and suffering
Co-creative equal partnership (coaches help people
explore their blocks and solve their problems)
Doctor-patient relationship (a therapist
provides the diagnosis and the solutions)
Assumes emotions are natural and normal
Assumes emotions are unnatural and abnormal
Growth and progress are often rapid and enjoyable
Growth and progress are often slow and painful
|A coach helps people identify their goals
and blocks, then walks with them to success, holding people accountable
for reaching their own goals.
||A therapist provides
and guidelines to diagnose problems
and provide a path to healing.
Help for Helping Professionals
We help a lot of helping professionals work through some more or less
predictable challenges. But helping professionals ask us for help -
after things go wrong, instead of sharpening their tools
before things go wrong. Every skill they master makes other
skills easier. Some of the problems that helping professionals can
get into are:
- Intimacy with a client
- Inappropriate training
- Inappropriate solutions
- Autobiographic diagnosis
- Inadequate goal coaching
- Poor relationship clarification
- Inadequate crisis management
- Inadequate practice of their skills
- Insufficient experience or supervision
- Choosing or accepting inappropriate clients
Although you can choose to change your life in many ways, not so many
strategies are effective. An efficient strategy for personal development
includes solving psychological health problems. One useful approach is:
- consider a "big picture" of what you want in life
- list your deficiencies, blocks or weaknesses
- for each weakness, note your emotions
- for each deficiency, set a positive goal
- choose a sequence - which goal first and which next, etc
- outline strategies for each of your goals
- consider which relationships support or hinder you
- find solutions for relationship problems
- take action to create recognizable success
- enjoy your success ... and set new goals
We offer solutions for most relationship problems and communication
challenges. We coach people to improve their relationships as
an integral part of defining and attaining important goals. Our
coaching includes solutions for identity loss and self-sabotage.
The consequences of
relationship problems often worsen over time, causing relationships to
descend towards codependence. Your willingness to solve your emotional
problems reflects your maturity!
Happy people seem to make the most of everything.
Happiness may be reserved for people who can love appropriately and
in full measure ... for people who can appreciate, accept and
encourage other people who touch their lives.
Do you want to solve psychological blocks to your happiness?
Do you want healthy relationships?
Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy
I thought you were just
another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
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