We offer personal and online coaching and training
for emotional and relationship problems,
family constellations and conflict management.
Increase Happiness with Love Coaching
Are you sometimes amazed at how few people explore the
depths of human love? Are you sometimes shocked at how many people never
explore how appropriate love brings lasting happiness? Yet inappropriate love can bring endless suffering.
LOVE is when the happiness of another person
is essential to your own.
The thousands of forms of joy in the world are
mostly the joy the joy of sharing love. Hopefully, this joy will never
leave you. Even in the hardest moments of your life, you can share
a lighthearted attitude that comforts others.
You want to love and be loved. That's part of happiness.
But love and be loved by whom? Your love needs an address ...
Do you want good relationships? Probably you have some basic
requirements. You might include compatibility, acceptance, respect,
stability, recognition, co-operation and shared goals.
We offer you insights into your emotions and your relationships.
These insights may increase your curiosity, as well as your
knowledge. If you may want to learn more, consider learning our systemic coaching.
You can share your life skills and expertise with other people.
Do you want to share more love? Improve
your love life with love coaching.
We can help you
manage you emotions and share your love.
Your Relationship Needs
Your relationships provide ways in which you can satisfy your
human needs - physical, emotional and spiritual. Although you may
not be aware of all of your relationship needs, psychologist Abraham
Maslow summarized a hierarchy of needs that may offer you insight into
Love is Sharing
||Sharing food, warmth, place to sleep, etc
||Sharing the security of a home
||Sharing membership with special groups of
||Sharing values, recognizing and valuing each other
||Sharing knowledge, skills and steps to fulfillment.
If you can share with other people, you have a profound
basis for wonderful relationships. If you cannot share, you would
probably benefit from love coaching. People who cannot share will
likely have problems in every relationship. People who cannot share
often become dependent or codependent.
Probably, your relationships give meaning to your life.
We use a hierarchy of relationship development that supports love.
The relationships that most affect your meaning of life may be:
Love is Connecting
||You feel connected to members of
your family in which you learn basic life
skills and follow family rules
||You feel connected to people with whom you share
experiences, feelings, personal details and advice
||You feel connected to people
with whom you work together towards shared goals with
commitment and co-operation
||You feel connected to a person to experience
love and intimacy, and
prepare for nurturing children or important projects
||You feel connected to your own children, child
substitutes (e.g. pets) or important long term projects that
you create and nurture
||You feel connected to members of
your communities, whether geographical, political, professional or
through shared interests
||You feel connected to all people, accepting their country of origin,
and diverse cultural backgrounds, values and beliefs
Your relationship goals add meaning to your life.
The relationship goals that may most affect your life may be:
Which goals are PRIMARY for you?
||Is your primary goal to
||Is your primary goal for your
to survive longer?
||Is your primary goal power
- you exist for your gratification?
||Is your primary goal stability
- you want to regulate society?
||Is your primary goal success
- you want to increase your material worth?
||Is your primary goal
community - to share experiences, feelings and wisdom?
||Is your primary goal to participate
in and change human systems
||Is your primary goal to value
and protect all living things
Are you using appropriate relationship skills? Do you treat
your partner as a parent, or a child? Do you relate to your
colleagues as if they were family, or to your children as if they were
employees? If so, you are nurturing relationships that will likely end in
Do you want to manage your emotions and solve relationship
I thought you were just
another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
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