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Mentors & Mentorship

Systemic Solutions with Martyn Carruthers

Your relationship skills, your coaching and mentoring, can last longer than your words or success. You can be remembered for your integrity, trust, and honest communication throughout your relationships.

From the Source of All
From potential to dynamic
LIGHT creates duality
 
Between the first created
Between equals for opposites
LOVE creates trinity
 
Three in one and one in three
Direction guides unfolding love
INTENTION creates multiplicity

Nature - the one in many
Evolution explores potential
PURPOSE creates life
 
Between earthly childhood
And cosmic adolescence ...
SOUL creates Mentors

Kumulipo Fragment” Plagiarism is theft © Martyn Carruthers, 2002

Any combination of words may be used to justify freedom or bondage. You can use the same words to build your prison walls or your bridges to lasting happiness. Today's truth quickly becomes tomorrow's foolishness and my words are forever subject to your meanings. I will choose words carefully, with a hope that you will choose meanings that benefit you.

If you have been damaged by mentors, or by inappropriate or toxic mentorship, you are unlikely to benefit from future mentorship until you dissolve or heal your damage. We can help you .. HERE.

You can choose to embody integrity. You can open your awareness; resolve your blocks and fulfill your life. You can build a bridge across the void. You can remember who you are, and wake up. You can embody Soul and assist the paths of others. The paths are many, the goal is One.

You cannot give, nor take, integrity as a gift, nor force it as a command. Yet each person choosing integrity can find it, and can mentor others. Here are some qualities of Soul Mentorship, and tips on how you can develop these qualities.

Soul of Soulwork . Meaning of Life . Soulwork Training

You, Your Cosmos and Integrity

You live in an infinite universe without center nor edge. You live in an infinite experience of life, before thoughts, without center nor edge. "Levels" or "depth" of life experience are useful illusions that may reflect your progress in mastering life challenges. An ultimate experience is to live with integrity.

Most people experience moments of integrity. Maintaining or stabilizing integrity is challenging - unresolved issues will keep most people in duality. Living with integrity may be life's highest challenge - and the most fulfilling path we may ever walk. Mentoring motivated people to live with integrity is one fulfillment of happiness.

You can fixate on your own path and insist that there is no other, or you can recognize that the paths to Soul are infinite. Integrity is forever available to those people who choose it.

As you experience Soul, you step into a source of wordless wisdom. Soul is beyond words, or perhaps before them. Soul can be described in abstract paradoxes: as an ever-new primordial state; as forever stable and forever changing; as the purpose of life and the life of purpose.

Soulwork can help you live with integrity. When you live in integrity, neither accepting nor rejecting, you can ruthlessly love your actions - and your consequences. You can assess whether your actions express your love appropriately.

You can appreciate all actions as expressions of love, regardless of consequence. You can ruthlessly love the people around you - and the games that you and they may play. If you judge the actions of others, you may fall into duality.

Experience Integrity

If you can stabilize Soul experience, you become a Soulworker. You can Soul Work. You can mentor people to live with integrity and coach people to heal their own lives ... and help heal the lives of others.

As a Soulworker, you transcend training and philosophy. You find refuge in integrity, in Soul. Beyond confused or selfish feelings, you can waken, and experience a world - your life, your world, your home. Your world is troubled. You can Soulwork.

When you merge with Soul, you can transcend sympathy and find compassion. You may see love in all people - and all actions. You can see that all human beings want to love and be loved and that they are desperately trying to realize their love. You may see that they can merge with Soul themselves, and in merging, you are never alone.

You can mentor those people who suffer in darkness. From an infinite number of paths, you can mentor those people who long to fulfill life on their own paths. You can bridge heaven and earth - integrating your highest ideals into your human reality.

You can mentor with patience and gentleness, or with arrogance and dogma. You are free to choose, and each person is free to respond to you. As you mentor others, you may be interested in their health and welfare, or uncaring. You can detach and isolate yourself, or you can build deep and trusting relationships. Good mentoring helps you learn how to better mentor others.

A dark side of mentorship is mentor damage. Dysfunctional mentors may use their authority to treat others like children, or use people as a testing ground for their ideas. Toxic mentors need to influence others - often trying to find meaning in otherwise meaningless lives. After mentor damage, people become unable to discern who is good for them - and who not - and avoid any form of mentorship.

Mentoring involves mutual influence - each protégé teaches a mentor how to become a better mentor. Mentors need feedback to develop their mentorship.

Quality mentorship helps people transcend selfishness. People can learn humility and patience by making decisions, accepting feedback, sometimes suffering, and learning, as we did, about life. Wise mentors help people develop in their own time, and offer support and encouragement.

Soul of Soulwork

Soulwork is accessible, simple and profound. In Soulwork, beyond concept and doubt, you can explore integrity and you can offer it to humanity. Our world needs people with discipline and strength, people who live their "sense of life". We seek people who want to develop and mentor others, and we seek for people who search for mentorship. We seek people to walk beside us, whatever their race, religion or philosophy. We seek ways to express love - and one way to express love is to accept love from others.

When you merge with Soul, you merge with those who have merged before, human or other. You can access their wisdom and find endless visions - including visions beyond humanity. You can complete your childhood and prepare for maturity. You can prepare to graduate from your kindergarten and take your place in the world. See Soul of Soulwork

Today's enlightened descriptions may be tomorrow's foolishness, and today's ideas may be tomorrow's Rainbow Bridge. Yet with your words and with your actions, beyond philosophy and dogma, you can manifest your integrity by helping heal this troubled planet.

Martyn Carruthers

Is Soulwork "New Age" . Chaos Coaching . Coaching & Mentoring

Coaching passes on skills while mentoring passes on wisdom. A mentor is person with whom you can discuss your relationships and life obstacles. A mentor may also act as a coach and an educator. Mentoring develops leadership, communication skills, builds relationships across diverse backgrounds and enhances coaching and teaching skills.

We present workshops on systemic coaching, family harmony and mentorship.
Would you like to attend a workshop?

Plagiarism is theft © Martyn Carruthers, 2002-2010 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

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We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

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One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.