We offer coaching, seminars and mentorship on family constellations,
chaos theory, resolving
family chaos and other relationship problems.
Genesis & Morphogenesis
Any form coming into being follows rules for that form.
The behavior of crystals can be accurately predicted by chemistry.
The behavior of matter can be accurately predicted by physics.
The behavior of large groups of people can be predicted by statistical
analysis, while individual behavior within human relationship systems is better
predicted by complexity and chaos theories.
Morphogenesis describes the subjective modification of
space. (If you plan something for tomorrow, you are likely to project
your plans onto the space in front of you, and maybe you put your memories
behind you). You can modify space to create something that is not-yet,
or that once-was. Similarly, if you consider important people, you are likely
to project those people onto the emotional space around you.
Our study of human
pheromones offer interesting models of local communication, yet
do not explain reaction-at-a-distance, which may be explained by
You have already created an unconscious mental matrix
of your important relationships ... we call them relationship maps.
Few people are conscious of their relationship maps - or their
consequences. Although your maps may remain unconscious, they follow rules for
their form. Our coaching researches and applies those rules.
Morphogenetic fields and morphic resonances were first
proposed by developmental biologists to refer to action at a distance.
Current theories about morphogenetic fields reflect Einstein's
theories of general relativity:
- Morphogenetic fields pervade space
- Morphogenetic fields interact with matter and energy
- Morphogenetic fields are symmetric second-rank tensors
If the evidence for these theories can be validated, a
morphogenetic field could be a counterpart of gravitation,
linked with quantum entanglements. See
If the quantum states of two or more separate
objects are best described with reference to each other, then
those objects are said to be entangled, and observations show
correlations between observable physical properties of systems.
Measurements on one system influence other entangled systems.
Albert Einstein called entanglements spooky action at a
distance, although quantum mechanics shows that entanglements are
possible. Physics experiments verified the phenomena, and Einstein's
spooky action can be observed. Quantum entanglement is now
an accepted physical phenomenon.
When humans are entangled, the emotional states of two
or more people are best described with reference to each other. This
leads to correlations between observable behaviors of people in systems.
"I am angry" may indicate identification with a
feeling. "I feel anger towards my girlfriend who ignored me
today" describes an emotional reaction. "I feel anger
towards my girlfriend when she reminds me of my mother who often
ignored me" better describes an emotional entanglement.
Our systemic relationship diagnosis may include family
maps - identifying the matrix of subjective positions of important
people from each person in a relationship system. Not only do family
maps indicate relationship problems, family maps can predict
solutions for human entanglements and predict behaviors of the
The behavior of people in a human system such as a
family or team will reflect their past and present behavior, and also
the emotional states of the people involved. Later members of the system,
perhaps future children or future employees, will often know, without
being told and without knowing how they know, what present
members think and feel - and what past members valued and believed
- and how they behaved.
This knowing, this intuition, can
be partially explained by unconscious, non-verbal communication between
the system members - or it can be partially explained by the presence of
a systemic field effect similar to that predicted for morphogenetic
Spooky Action at a Distance
The resolution of the emotions and relationship
(systemic) components underlying a disease are often accompanied
by the dissolution of disease symptoms - without medical treatment.
This dissolution can happen locally, with a client during systemic
coaching, or non-locally, with a person with whom a difficult or
problematic relationship was changed during systemic coaching.
This non-local healing associated with systemic coaching allows us to test
communication dynamics. By limiting verbal communication or behavioral
interactions between local and non-local people, we could confirm what Albert
Einstein called spooky action at a distance.
Our research into
indicates that many rituals utilized non-local action. The rituals of
ho'oponopono, ho'omoe and la'au
kahea assume that human health reflects human relationships, and that
information can pass between distant people. (When action at a distance
becomes healing at a distance, it is indeed spooky.)
Human subjective experience includes visual and
auditory representations of other people, e.g. "I can just imagine
what my mother would do" or "I know exactly what my brother
would say about that". Many people can readily imagine the colors
and shapes of emotions e.g. "My anger is like a red cloud bursting
out of my heart". It is a short step to visualize feelings of
connection to other people, e.g. "My connection to my partner
is a wide pink and gold light between our hearts".
Metaphysics often refer to such connections, sometimes
called etheric cords in Europe or aka in old Hawaii. Some
form of energy is postulated to flow between people along these connections,
to achieve this spooky action at a distance. This energy was called
magic in Europe and mana in old Hawaii.
If magic is a name for a technology you do not understand,
then the ability to cause predictable changes in non-local behavior is
systemic magic. Using quantum entanglement as a model, you can
predict changes in relationship behavior of people (especially people
who are ignorant of systemic coaching).
Many times, our clients have cell-phone calls from relatives that they
have not talked to for years - during private sessions to clarify
those particular relationships! Before cell phones, some of our clients
had letters from past-partners or relatives - letters from people who
wrote that they suddenly and unexpectedly felt that something had
improved or changed in their relationship with our client.
Some of the mailed letters describing these sudden changes of
relationship perceptions were written and mailed shortly before our
coaching sessions - although the letters arrived after
those sessions. Is this spooky action at a distance?
People like us, who believe
in physics, know that distinctions between past,
present and future are only stubbornly persistent illusions.
Contact us to manage your emotions and solve your relationship
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