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Solve Relationship Problems & Separation Coaching
By Jan Sikorski

Online Life Coaching & Mentorship

Martyn and Kosjenka offer quality relationship seminars and their inspirational and entertaining style gets good reviews wherever they go. Religious organizations, corporations, schools, parenting groups and mental health organizations often sponsor these transformational seminars.

Soulwork, Couple Coaching, Separation & Divorce

Martyn Carruthers, creator of Soulwork Systemic Solutions, and Kosjenka Muk, international trainer, have helped many unhappy couples work through their differences and either fall in love again or separate peacefully as friends.

Martyn and Kosjenka say that poor role models, unrealistic expectations and unfinished "family stuff" ends many otherwise wonderful partnerships. They offer couples a powerful antidote to these destructive energies through practical, systemic solutions for partnership problems.

As one partner is usually more motivated than the other to improve a partnership, Martyn's couple coaching is designed to be effective even if only one spouse wants to save a marriage.

Martyn and Kosjenka teach inspirational and educational seminars internationally. They have been frequent guests on television talk shows and radio interviews in many countries.

But perhaps their best credentials for relationship coaching are their students and graduates - people from many walks of life who can now provide effective relationship coaching.

Evaluate Your Partnership . Couple Coaching Flowchart and Testimonial

Evaluating Your Partnership

You may decide to end your marriage without first seeking professional coaching. Your decisions about divorce are probably the most important decisions you will make. Yet few people with marital problems consider getting couple counseling.

Professional advice, marriage therapy or mediation does not guarantee things will improve. Many people have said that marriage therapy only made things worse. Although most marriage therapists are well-meaning, they are not always competent in recognizing and dissolving systemic disturbances.

A graduate Soulwork coach has received specific training in couple counseling, which requires very different skills to individual coaching or individual therapy. A Soulwork coach can help you both identify and communicate your feelings to each other, and assist you to discuss, plan and achieve relationship goals.

Enjoying Partnership

Your New Start

When you request New Start coaching or training we have one goal - to help you create better relationships. No relationship problem is too big or too small (and often the small problems turn out to be the most toxic).

We offer short term, goal-oriented coaching based on Martyn's systemic coaching. We seek practical resolutions for your relationship problems. We don't assign blame or analyze things to death.

For that reason, our coaching generally takes considerably less time than older, conventional methods. Most couples each attend a two-hour session apart, and then three to six sessions together.

However, every situation varies and some people require more time to find the answers they need. The therapists at our center are skilled at helping people improve their marriages even if only one partner participates! This is an important difference between New Start coaching and more traditional approaches. We're convinced that we can be helpful even if your spouse is halfway out the door. It's never too late.

Your coach will begin by helping you set clear and concrete goals so you both know where you're headed. Then, he or she will help you identify what you need to do differently to achieve the goals you've set. We are certain that people have many untapped strengths and inner resources that get forgotten when times get tough.

We help you remember your strengths and put them to use. Plus, we have plenty of good ideas of our own to add to your toolkit. When you complete New Start coaching, you'll have a plan and you'll feel more prepared to do what it takes to turn things around. And we can support you both through your confusion into clarity.

Whether you choose our coaching for help in solving your relationship problems, you should read some of our articles on this website about Couple Coaching. Start your recovery now. Saving your partnership or marriage may be your most important goal.

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email