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We present interactive seminars and demonstration-rich
workshops on systemic coaching, relationship happiness, resolving family chaos
and relationship bonds. Email us if you would like a workshop.
Why do we need Premarital Coaching?
Your love for each other, however heavenly, can be grounded
in the reality of your relationship skills and life experience.
Soulwork premarital counseling helps people build a strong foundation for marriage.
Your partnership can be seen as intimate teamwork,
where you together create an intimate space in which you can nourish
yourselves, and provide a home for potential children or a base for mutual
projects. If
either of you lack friendship or teamwork skills, then your partnership
will likely suffer until you learn them.
Your important question may be, "How can I be
SURE that (s)he is right for me?"
Soul Mates
. Predictable Partnership .
Space for Love
Soulwork Couple Coaching
Soulwork couple coaching sessions are about two hours each,
and three sessions are normal for premarital couples. Most couples use this time to
clarify partnership issues and clean up relationships with parents and
past-partners. A few couples decide that their
beliefs, values and intentions are incompatible for long-term partnership - and
choose friendship instead.
Evaluating
Partnership . Enjoying Partnership
. Hawaiian Wedding
First Premarital Coaching Session
A Soulwork coach can help you test your compatibility
by comparing your beliefs and values. We discuss key
issues such as where to live, how many children and how you want to
raise them.
If you have only met each other in romantic
conditions, this might include some mild stress tests. Can
you discuss your differences - your different opinions about religion,
politics and money. Can you discuss how to furnish a home together,
or put up wallpaper together without a fight?
If you know your strengths and weaknesses as a couple,
you can build on your strengths and strengthen your weaknesses. Many
weaknesses are due to relationship entanglements ... unhealthy enmeshments with
parents or ex-partners, etc, and to bad relationship habits.
Second Premarital Coaching Session
A Soulwork coach can help you assess your entanglements with
parents and past-partners, etc, and help you disentangle. A coach can help you
check that your love for each other is not based on some wild transference to a
relative or media figure. A Soulwork coach can help you resolve transferences,
dysfunctional habits or relationship bonds.
Entanglements . Mother-Son Bonds . Father-Daughter Bonds
Systemic diagnosis is fast
and usually fun for both of you. and prepares you for...
Third Premarital Coaching Session
Soulwork systemic coaching can help you explore your
relationship strengths and challenges, not only now but also in the
predictable future. A coach helps you explore the long-term aspects of
not only living together but sharing a lifetime together.
More practically, you can develop a workable budget
and financial plan, develop your personal, couple and family goals and
resolve any issues that arose in Sessions 1 & 2.
Couple Coaching
Flowchart and TestimonialDo you want relationship coaching or systemic coach training? Do you want to coach people to resolve emotional and relationship challenges?
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