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Relationship Coaching & Mentorship

Systemic Solutions with Martyn Carruthers

We present interactive and demonstration-rich workshops on systemic coaching, happiness, resolving family chaos and relationship bonds. Email us if you would like a workshop in your area.

Relationships Under Attack

Have you been besieged by conflicting, contradictory and useless relationship advice since your early childhood? In many countries, family mentorship is being replaced by television. Poor relationship advice can seriously harm your relationships and your chances of long-term happiness.

Most advice is actually criticism. Good relationship coaching and quality mentorship can change your relationship habits; in your partnership, your family, your teams and your community. Quality coaching can help you dissolve trauma, entanglements and codependence.

Space for Love . Entanglements . Codependence

Important Relationship Coaching Questions

  1. Can systemic coaching really improve your relationships?
  2. How can we coach your relationships?
  3. Who provides relationship coaching?
  4. Is one relationship coach as good as another?
  5. How can good relationship coaching benefit you?
  6. Should you guess about your relationship problems?
  7. Is relationship coaching a wise investment?
  8. What problems can you dissolve with a good relationship coach?

Relationship Coaching Answers

1. Can systemic coaching really improve your relationships?
Yes. Good coaching focuses on goals and results, rather than just talking about problems. Effective coaching supports you to evaluate and change your everyday life. Your decisions and subsequent actions are needed for your success.

Your results depend on you. No tricks will automatically improve your relationships. A coach will not solve your problems for you, or stop you feeling depressed about depressing situations. A good coach can help you define your goals and find steps to fulfill them. Happiness requires participation!

2. How can we coach your relationships?
A good relationship coach provides results. You can learn how to change your relationship behavior to build long-term happiness. While some conditions change with each relationship, people who use proven relationship skills can improve the quality and quantity of their relationships.

3. Who provides relationship coaching?
Many people offer relationship coaching, marital counseling, couple therapy etc. Your decisions about your relationship coaching may depend on:

  • How are your current relationships?
  • What are your relationship goals?
  • What is your relationship history?
  • How important is relationship happiness to you?
  • How are your finances?
  • Do you look at coaching as a luxury or as an investment?

4. Is one relationship coach as good as another?
No. The quality of relationship coaches vary. Check a coach's age, experience and proven results. Many young, single people call themselves "partnership coaches", without personal experience in commitment, parenthood or dedicated teamwork.

Find coaches who walk their talk - many only mumble their stumble

5. How can good relationship coaching benefit you?
A good coach can help you diagnose and clarify your problems, clarify your goals, improve your skills, change your beliefs, dissolve your conflicts, resolve your transferences, dissolve your entanglements, encourage your decisions, ...

6. Should you guess about solving your relationship problems?
Poor coaching focuses only on symptoms. Good coaching can show you how to identify the underlying causes of your problems and how to resolve or control them.

7. Is quality relationship coaching a wise investment?
Much relationship coaching appears to lack value, yet may be better than nothing. Many coaches over-use simple questions and avoid complex relationship issues. Much coaching is by young and single people who do not appreciate the difficulties of long-term relationships.

You can best benefit best from coaches and mentors who are trained and experienced in many forms of relationships - including at least family, team, couple, parenthood and community coaching.

8. What problems can a relationship coach dissolve?
Besides personality evaluation and relationship diagnosis, a good relationship coach or mentor can coach responsible, motivated people to sort out:

  • Family entanglements, transferences, projections and guilt issues
  • Relationship diagnosis: planning and skill deficiencies
  • Relationship decisions; simple and complex conflicts
  • Issues about morals, ethics and integrity
  • Family and societal influences (limitations on happiness)
  • Past and present relationships (confusion of relationship types)
  • Emotional trauma (often a source of anger, sadness and fear)
  • Poor quality advice (from parents, friends, teachers, etc)
  • Codependence and emotional incest with relatives
  • Dealing with past partners

Emotional Incest . Predictable Partnership

Systemic Relationship Coaching

We can help you create and maintain happy relationships. Instead of listening to your excuses, your coach can help you turn your life around. Do you want an experienced coach to help you achieve your dreams?

  • Time-limited coaching for relationship issues
  • We can provide you with a quick helping hand - or a helping foot!
  • Long-term relationship coaching and mentorship for life issues
  • Soulwork can help you master difficult situations such as birth, sickness, death and divorce

Our relationship coach training provides training in innovative Soulwork systemic coaching and on-going coaching / mentoring relationships

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Training Centers & Programs
We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

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to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.