Soulwork Home Page

Check your spelling

Soulwork Online Help

Soulwork Humor: Funny stories


 

Soulwork Systemic Coaching: Summary

Soulwork Coach Training

Soulwork FAQ Questions & Answers

 

Emotional Issues
Addictions
Anger & Rage
Anxiety
Dependence
Depression

Dissociation
Eating Problems
Emotional Maturity
Grief & Loss
Immaturity
Inner Child

Pain Control
Sadness
Stress Relief

Toxic Beliefs
Trauma & Stress
Weight Loss

 

Relationship Problems
Abuse
Affairs

Codependence
Dissolve Conflicts
Divorce
Emotional Blackmail

Enjoy Partnership
Evaluate Partners
Long-Distance Love
Love & Hate

Partnership
Past Partners
Premarital
Rejection
Sexual Issues
Soul Mates

 

Family Challenges
Abuse

Abortion
Adoption
Ancestors
Brothers & Sisters
Divorce & Children
Emotional Incest
Family Meetings
Family Secrets

Fathers & Daughters
Fathers & Sons
Learning Disorders
Mothers & Daughters
Mothers & Sons

Parental Alienation

 

Life Lessons
Authority
Bad Habits
Being Alone
Children's Challenges
Communication
Observing Feelings

Patterns in Love
Personal Growth
Quantum Leap
Self Esteem
Self Improvement
Self Intimacy
Stress & Relaxing
Therapist and Clients

 

Specialties
Chaos Coaching

Inner Conflict
Consciousness
Expert Modeling
Leadership
Learning Disorders
Mentorship

Psychobiology
Sexual Abuse
Soul of Soulwork
Systemic Management
Therapist Abuse
Training Abuse

 

 

Interview with Martyn
Disclaimer
Disclosure
Privacy
Fee, Cost, Price
 

eXTReMe Tracker

Soul At Work
Simplicity Made Easy by Jan Sikorski

Click HERE to make an appointment!


S
ome thoughts and insights from Martyn's trainings.

Presuppositions

  1. Nobody dies - only bodies
  2. There's no such thing as a family secret
  3. Children will try to complete what their parent's start
  4. Your body and your mind will reflect your relationships

The experience of Integrity or Soul during our systemic psychology corresponds with descriptions from many spiritual traditions. Many people attracted to our work want to directly experience the Sense of Life or Integrity that is the Soul of Soulwork...

  1. Soul communicates through behavior
  2. You can only consider what you can comprehend
  3. Soul cannot be comprehended - Soul can be experienced
  4. Soul communicates through clarity, courage, focus ... and suffering


Definitions

  1. Soul is reality: from your reality, you express your sense of life
  2. Soul is experience: from your experience you choose how to act
  3. Soul is consciousness: from your consciousness you focus experience
  4. Soul is connectedness: from your connectedness comes consciousness


Identity

Your life is your eternal springtime, as consciousness blossoms into connectedness. Soul experience is your summer of inspiration.

  1. Your harvest is your sense of life - your happiness
  2. You can transcend consciousness and experience integrity
  3. Your every action expresses your identity as you create your reality
  4. Your physical, emotional and intellectual appetites may fade in your integrity


Beliefs

Beliefs are generalizations: your verbalized summaries of experience by which you attempt to communicate abstractions.

  1. Create beliefs based on your experiences; and accept beliefs to strengthen your relationships
  2. You perceive your external reality through your beliefs. You will continually prove yourself right
  3. If you examine your beliefs, you can discover a stable experience of self - of YOU-ness - that transcends beliefs
  4. Reality is what's left when you stop believing in it


Experiences

Use your senses to experience - to observe, to listen, to smell, to touch, to feel and to intuit.

  1. Everything is our experience of reality
  2. We can move past that which we observe, into Soul
  3. Listen to words, observe your images, and let them go
  4. Experience deeply, express intently and listen heartfully


Feel

  1. Feel the sounds around you as the pulse of your life
  2. Feel the abundant life around you - and including you
  3. Stop your thoughts and feel the wind, the rain, the sun, the earth
  4. Feel your rhythms of creation, your growth, your expanding life energy



Communication

  1. You cannot not communicate
  2. Express your intent and motivation clearly
  3. Share your experience with words and actions
  4. Accept and ponder your revelations before sharing them


Relationships

Consider the potential meanings and purposes of each relationship. Observe your attachments to physical relationships and convert those attachments to conscious interactions.

  1. How are you using or abusing your physical body?
  2. Every relationship can be a profound spiritual experience
  3. Every relationship will mirror what you experience in yourself
  4. Physical, emotional and intellectual actions have spiritual consequences


Live Consciously

Conscious living applies knowledge and emotions with congruent action.

  1. Honor your life, and other lives, by fulfilling your life purpose
  2. Work together to bring harmony, restore balance and build peace
  3. Congruence reflects life experiences, decisions and consequences


Unconscious Living - Robot Habits

Your habits are your patterns of attachment. Study your routines. Observe your responses, feelings and actions. Recognize your habits as you interact with the world. If you respond only in the ways you know how to respond - you cannot recognize and transcend your habits.

  1. Observe the consequences of thoughtless, robot habits
  2. Observe robotic expectations and beliefs in yourself and others
  3. Move from habit to purpose by asking "What increases my lasting happiness?"


Integrity

  1. Separation exists only in your mind
  2. Your actions always reflect your integrity
  3. Each moment connects the infinite with the temporal
  4. Your expectations, beliefs, judgments and attachments can block integrity


Online Couple Coaching, Counseling & Therapy

 


If you like our work, please link to us. If you know someone who might benefit,
please mention www.SystemicPsychology.com or www.EmotionsRelationships.com

For online help, email us at: europecoach@gmail.com

Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii

 

Soulwork systemic coaching in England, Wales & Scotland

 
Soulwork systemic coaching in Croatia & Serbia
 

Soulwork systemic coaching in Poland

 

 

Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2017 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email europecoach@gmail.com