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The Relationship Coaching Institute

Soul Work for Soul Mates

Advanced Systemic Solutions with Martyn Carruthers

We present interactive seminars and demonstration-rich workshops on systemic coaching, happiness, resolving family chaos and relationship bonds. Email us if you would like a workshop in your area.

Couple Coaching for Deep Happiness

As spiritual beings you can choose to share human experiences - you can choose to be Soul Mates. You and your partner can remember who you are and your integrity - together and apart. You and your partner can relate as human beings - and in integrity - within a happy partnership. You and your partner can powerfully and authentically, fulfill yourselves while helping each other joyfully resolve blocks, conflicts and old habits.

Soulwork Couple Coaching is neither advice nor therapy. It is a proactive and dynamic approach to making your lives make sense - together. You are both already creative, whole and resourceful. Our Couple Coaching provides choices and perspectives, and helps you both clarify your values and goals.

Living as Soul Mates means living with responsibility and integrity. Sometimes conflicts must be resolved before both you and your partner can fully participate in spiritual coaching.

[ Premarital Coaching . Impotence and Frigidity . Abortions ]

Couple Conflicts

Couples can dramatically improve their relationships by dealing with issues - but not by hiding problems or ignoring potential conflicts. Couple Coaching can identify issues for resolution; while coaching both partners how to peacefully resolve future conflicts.

[ Relationship Coaching . Soulwork Review ]

Codependence

The opposite of spirituality in a partnership might be called codependence. Some of the consequences of codependence are listed in the table below:

Consequences of Codependence

  • feel lethargic or "low energy"
  • feel dejected and depressed
  • feel hopeless, helpless and worthless
  • feel withdrawn and isolated
  • abuse or neglect your children
  • searches for ways to "escape" responsibilities
  • consider self-harm or suicide
  • become aggressive and violent
  • psychosomatic disease symptoms
  • eating and sleeping disorders
  • addictions to alcohol or drugs
  • emotional, mental, or physical disease symptoms

Partnership Wishes

Although each of you may know what you want, you may be less aware of your partner's wishes. You may assume that the other agreed on a certain point. Then, if some wishes are not fulfilled, the disappointed partner may react with anger, anxiety, depression or withdrawal. (This is most likely when one partner believes that he fulfilled his obligations but that the partner did not.)

  • Together explore both contracts, and find conflicts
  • Resolve those conflicts and integrate your wishes

[ Couple Contracts ]

Soul Mates

Couple Coaching encourages and challenges partners to move forward and realize their purpose in life, while creating a warm, compassionate experience of committed partnership. A Soulwork Couple Coach will discuss goals and blocks, and identify goals that focus spiritual progress.

Couple Coaching does not replace religious guidance and direction that may be available from organized religions. Soulwork Couple Coaching can coach couples to:

  •  Awaken to aware, conscious states
  •  Develop authentic relationships
  •  Accept and dissolve conflicts
  •  Expose and dissolve transferences
  •  Build spirituality in everyday life
  •  Consciously connect bodies, minds and spirits
  •  Love with integrity

Soulwork Spiritual Coaching focuses on both of you staying clear and active towards creating and fulfilling a partnership of your dreams ... one step at a time. Becoming Soul mates is possible - and often not as easy as the normal partnerships that surround you.

How do you start?

To begin Relationship Coaching, you and your partner should want:

  •  to personally commit to development together
  •  to expose and resolve transferences
  •  to expose and resolve conflicts
  •  to develop creativity and flexibility

Committed partners have everything to gain from the first step. It's up to you! Email us.

Spiritual Development . Spirituality for Families . Is Soulwork "New Age"?

Systemic Coach Training welcomes friendly people who are motivated and emotionally stable. Enhance your career with life coaching and relationship coaching skills. Coach people to gain clarity, dissolve success and relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life. Help people build success and quality relationships. You can help people fulfill their dreams.


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Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to resolve therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness and avoid partnership breakdown
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems and to set and enjoy family goals
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders to develop teams while solving team problems
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to fulfill your goals and needs

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