Are you entangled in difficult relationships or negative emotions?
Do you suffer from old trauma?
We can help you untangle
|Online Life Coaching
Are you waiting for suffering to motivate you? Are you waiting for
someone to tell you what to do?
Stop wasting time! Our private sessions can help you get the
breakthroughs that you want - and that you deserve.
This is appropriate for people who tried therapy - and didn't get what they
Develop and use master strategies for life.
Do you want to do something
meaningful and truly
Do you want to help people solve emotional and
relationship resistance to happiness and success - and build a second income.
This is especially appropriate for
therapists, counselors, etc
You can learn systemic coaching in
Overview of Coach Training
Strategies for Life
Success in any field requires supportive relationships and
role models, and effective solutions for conflicts, limiting beliefs and
negative emotions. Each step of our
coaching strategies build on each previous success to prepare for the next goal.
The sequence is as important as the goals - ineffective coaching or
therapy wastes precious time on unimportant or irrelevant issues!
Do you wait for "suffering" to
motivate you? Do you wait for someone to tell you what to do?
Do you wait
for permission to live your own life? Or have you suffered enough?
- Current Crisis - assess and relieve shock and stress
- Systemic Diagnosis - assess relationship situations
- Relationship Clarification
- untangle complex relationships
- Guilt Management - enhance your
sense-of-life and regain
- Goal Diagnosis - predict resistance to
your goals and your resources
- Goal Coaching - define your goals and plan
- Conflict Resolution - find direction, resolve conflicts and make better decisions
- Identity Changework - manage
and redefine your relationships
- Belief Changework - change limiting beliefs while
protecting your relationships
- Trauma Resolution - manage unresolved
and regain lost resources
- Expert Modeling - use expert strategies
and duplicate expert performance
- Mentorship - disconnect toxic mentors & repair mentor damage
Overview of our Coach Training
We help people explore what they really want, where they are
now and how they can get from here to there. We coach people to achieve material
success, emotional freedom and/or relationship happiness. We help people define
- their own individual goals
- the goals (expectations)
of other people
- cooperative relationship problems (e.g. habits and conflicts)
- cooperative systemic goals (e.g. families, teams, communities)
Consider our logo ... with a few extra words
First solve any current crisis. If you wait for other people to solve
your problems or to resolve your conflicts. you may be stuck in
We can help you solve your own issues - and then you can help other people to
their lives! Dealing with any current crisis is a strong first step towards
emotional maturity and
Next focus on peace and clarity. Improve and enjoy good relationships with parents, partners, ex-partners
and children. Dissolve any relationship confusion (e.g. reacting to a partner
as if to a parent, or to a client as if to a partner, with all the unpleasant
consequences). Resolving enmeshed relationships
can accelerate success in all
parts of life. (See emotional
Choose meaningful goals and resolve goal conflicts - both
conflicts on what goals and conflict on how to achieve those goals. The key is
to find the hidden benefits of the conflicts as a path to resolving them. Resolving
any chronic conflict
can help you better focus on planning and fulfilling your life.
The end of our inner conflict resolution leads to an experience
of integrity that many people describe as transcending space and time. You can
then stabilize this experience as a stable life-resource, while defining life direction
(or mission or purpose). See Soul
The word beliefs refer to
feelings of conviction about a verbal statement or visual image; and the word bonds refer to feelings of connection, enmeshment or fixation. While beliefs are
more conscious, and bonds (much) more unconscious, both beliefs and bonds can
motivate and modify behavior.
We help people change fixations and limiting
beliefs and increase their freedom and choice. As people
manage their toxic bonds, fixations and obsessions, they feel increasingly free and peaceful;
and subsequent coaching becomes increasingly concrete and goal-oriented.
See relationship bonds.
We define trauma as an experience which causes a person to
split-off part of their consciousness; and the symptoms associated with
these parts are called post-traumatic stress disorders or PTSD.
We help people find and integrate these split-off parts, which
often show up as resistance to motivation and success.
We coach people to end the emotional consequences of trauma, crisis and abuse and
we help people assimilate and manage post-traumatic stress. Most people can transform
their negative emotions into motivation
to live a full life. See
Trauma and PTSD.
Part of our coaching is helping people evaluate their past and current role
models and repair mentor damage.
We coach people to find inspirational mentors to help develop their focus, integrity,
supportive beliefs and motivation. Quality mentorship helps people find their goals -
and fulfill their life purposes!
Accept and encourage, provoke and challenge as you explore
goals and consequences. Act now to manage emotional problems and
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