Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Coach Training
People seeking our systems coaching may be individuals
- or couples, business partners,
teams. We embed individual coaching
within systems coaching. Our training supports people who wish to solve
emotional problems and enjoy better relationships.
Beauty is all around,
we enjoy sharing it!
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Our greatest training aid is to create an environment of
Systems 1: Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification
Our Systems 1 training is a stand-alone workshop, focusing on relationship diagnosis and relationship clarification. This 5-day workshop
provides coaches, helping professionals and managers with
practical information, systemic theory, demonstrations and exercises to better understand human
relationships and to coach people to discover and change some of their emotional
issues and relationship problems.
We develop these coaching strategies further during Systems
2 "Goal Diagnosis & Two-Mind Planning" training and Systems 3 "Interactive
Metaphors & Dreaming Together" training. We use these strategies throughout our training to coach people to
quickly understand their overall relationship situations and discover
self-sabotage and other
hidden resistance to success.
Relationship Quality & Communication Skills
You are always relating to people ... even your withdrawal or seclusion sends strong
relationship signals. Although you may want to communicate with other people
appropriately, other people may or may not respond to your communication in the
way you wish. Our relationship coach training can accelerate your feelings
of pleasure and well-being, and stabilize them in your relationships.
When you communicate, you spontaneously (usually unconsciously)
express non-verbal signals that accompany your verbal statements. Your nonverbal
signals provide valuable information about your verbal message. Your congruence
carries meaningful information about your qualities and deficiencies. Noticing
and responding to nonverbal signals and congruence is part of systemic coach
Systems 1: Training Outcomes
Systems 1 Coach Training is a foundation for helping people
understand and manage many relationship difficulties. You can apply these skills
in education, therapy or business, and you can balance excellence at work with
harmony at home as you learn to use systemic coaching skills to:
- Develop clear, mature relationships
- Remain flexible in times of crisis and change
- Develop focused action plans to fulfill well-defined goals
- Develop essential coaching and authentic leadership skills
- Improve your performance and satisfaction as you
Systems 1: Coach Training
Each person is entangled in many relationship
systems. Each relationship system has many goals, behaviors, transferences that
are expressed by emotions. You can learn:
- What are
human relationship systems?
- How to identify
- How to evaluate family systems
- How to recognize common entanglements
- How to assess relationship problems
- How to clarify relationships
- How to predict relationship consequences
Coaching Family Systems
Each person represents many relationships systems - some
may be recently formed and some may have existed for generations. Perhaps the most
common human system, a family is a complex psycho-social-political entity. Even
quiet families are busy places, full of interesting dynamics.
Systems 1 coach training includes many demonstrations and
exercises investigating the relationship dynamics of participants. Participants
will quickly learn to understand and apply systemic diagnosis and explore its many roles in relationship
Planning multiple coaching sessions
Some resistance to success cannot be managed in a single session. Some people are resourceful enough to continue dissolving
by themselves, once they know how to do this, while many people request further
coaching sessions to achieve complex goals
and to untangle relationship knots.
What Comes Next?
Systems 2 coach training explores how to coach people
to choose complex goals,
and includes how to plan their achievement into logical sequences of steps - with each step
having intermediary goals. Systems 2 delves deeply into Goalwork (finding what
people really want) and Objections (finding how people block their own success).
Systems 3 coach training explores how to coach
people with stories and metaphors, and includes dream coaching - how to coach
people who spontaneously enter sleepy, trance-like states. This course includes
dreaming together - how to explore dreams from the inside - dreaming with
During our more advanced coach training - Systems
coach training 4 to 10
- you can learn how to coach people to manage complex emotional and relationship issues
such as emotional incest,
relationship bonds and
therapist damage. See the
table below ...
Do you want to change success and relationship issues, and understand what
makes sense in life?
Do you want to build success and healthy relationships?
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