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What is Systemic Coaching?

Systemic Solutions with Martyn Carruthers

Are you entangled in difficult relationships or emotions? Do you still suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer from your parents' drama, your partner's demands, your boss's moods? Our Systemic Solutions can help you untangle your life ... and you can help people reclaim their freedom.

Systemic Coaching Systemic Coach Training Personal Development

Do you wait for suffering to motivate you? Do you wait for someone to tell you what to do?

Stop wasting time! Soulwork coaching can help you get the breakthroughs that you want - and that you deserve.

This is especially appropriate for people who have already tried therapy - and it didn't work.

Learn master strategies for life ...

Systemic Coaching

Do you want to do something truly worthwhile?

You can help people solve emotional and relationship blocks to happiness and success - and build a second income.

This is especially appropriate for therapists, counselors, etc

You can learn systemic coaching in eight 5-day workshops.

Systemic Coach Training

Do you want to improve your communication and relationship skills at home and at work?

We can help you increase your freedom from entanglements and relationship habits.

You can sort out personal issues during demonstrations and exercises.

For rapid personal development ...

Relationship Skills

Master Strategies for Life

Success in any field requires supportive relationships, symptoms, conflicts, beliefs, emotions and role models. Each step of systemic coaching builds on previous success to prepare for the next goal. The coaching sequence is important when solving complex problems. Ineffective coaching or poorly timed therapy can waste your precious time and resources on unimportant or irrelevant issues!

Do you wait for "suffering" to motivate you? Do you wait for someone to tell you what to do?
Do you wait for permission to live your own life? Get Systemic Coaching!

  1. Systemic Diagnosis - assess and predict relationship situations
  2. Relationship Clarification - untangle complicated relationships
  3. Guilt Management - enhance your sense-of-life and regain your motivation
  4. Goal Diagnosis - predict steps to your chosen success, and your needed resources
  5. Goal Coaching - define and plan your congruent goals
  6. Conflict Resolution - find life direction, resolve conflicts and make better decisions
  7. Identity Changework - resolve identity loss and redefine your relationships
  8. Belief Changework - dissolve limiting beliefs while protecting your relationships
  9. Trauma Resolution - dissolve unresolved trauma and regain lost resources
  10. Expert Modeling - use expert strategies and duplicate expert performance
  11. Mentorship - disconnect from toxic mentors and find inspirational mentors

Overview of Systemic Coaching

You can explore what people really want, where they are now and how they can succeed. You can help people achieve success, emotional freedom and/or relationship happiness. You can help people clean up their pasts and their present - as a basis for their future. Consider this symbol...

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psychology, treatment, process, method, systemic psychotherapy, 
family psychotherapy, systemic solutions, conflict, addictions, family tree, 
alcholism, drug addiction, systemic methods, mental illness, mental disease,
emotional incest

Crisis & Maturity

You can first deal with crisis. People who wait for someone else to solve their problems may remain immature and dependent. You can coach people to enjoy clarifying and resolving each part of their lives! Helping people deal with a current crisis is often the first step of our systemic coaching.

Entanglements & Clarity

You can help people gain peace and clarity. You can coach people to enjoy good relationships with parents, partners, ex-partners and children, instead of relationship confusion (e.g. reacting to a partner as if to a parent, or to a friend as if to a partner, which has unpleasant consequences.) Resolving entanglements can accelerate all parts of life. (A common entanglement is emotional incest.)

Conflict & Integrity

You can help people dissolve conflict. You can coach people to find the hidden benefits of conflicts, and to resolve them. After resolving inner conflicts, they can focus on congruent plans.

The end of conflict is often an experience of integrity. You can coach people to stabilize this experience as a life-resource, while defining life direction (or mission or purpose). See Soul of Soulwork.

Relationship Bonds & Choice

You can help people change relationship bonds. You can coach people to increase their freedom and choice. People who resolve toxic relationships feel increasingly free and peaceful; and subsequent coaching becomes increasingly concrete and goal-oriented. See Relationship Bonds

Trauma, Abuse & Motivation

You can help people resolve motivational blocks. You can coach people to end any emotional chaos follows crisis and stress and transform unpleasant emotions into motivation. See trauma & abuse

Mentors & Inspiration

You can help people evaluate their past and current role models and dissolve mentor damage. You can help people find inspirational mentors. With focus, integrity, supportive beliefs, motivation and inspirational mentorship - you can help people find and fulfill their goals - and their life purpose!

Systemic Coaching is provided by certified systemic coaches, who may also offer Couple Coaching, Leadership Coaching, Family Coaching and Refugee Coaching.

Avoid criticism and advice. Accept and encourage, provoke and challenge as you explore goals and consequences. Why not help people accelerate their happiness and success?

Do you want systemic coaching or systemic coach training? Do you want to coach people to resolve relationship challenges?

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1998-2009 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

Training Centers & Programs
We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.