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☼ Solve Emotional and Relationship Problems ☼

We help people define their goals, manage their emotions,
solve their relationship problems and enjoy their lives.

You live within relationship networks that influence your behavior, your success and your life. You can enjoy healthier relationships and a better life by resolving your conflicts and changing unwanted habits.

Contact us to discover:
• Can we effectively help someone like you change?
• Can we empathize with you and understand your problems?

Do you want to end self-sabotage, manage emotional obstacles, and
improve your relationships as you define, plan and accomplish your goals?

If you have unrealistic or fantasy goals, or if you expect us to do the work for you,
we suggest that you look elsewhere.

Maturity, Integrity & Purpose

Would you like to wake up enthusiastic? Do you prefer to feel strong? Do you want to attract and feel attracted to healthy, mature people as you fulfill your life?

Your goals are holograms of your life - your history and your expectations, your family and your relationships, your emotions and your self-esteem. We can help you be stronger and more creative in areas in which you are already confident, and coach you in areas where you want to gain competence.


Solve Partnership Problems

  •  manage relationship problems
  •  attract and feel attracted to healthy people
  •  express your wishes, needs and demands
  •  feel safe in physical and emotional intimacy

Fractals © Martyn Carruthers, 2005

Many people ask us for tips on life coaching ... yet coaching is not our goal. Healthy families and effective teams are our goals. Happy children are our goals. We help people manage negative emotions, gain insights and solve problems.

Maturity and Confidence

Many people hide or distort themselves to compensate for relationship problems. Even as adults, they may act childishly in their decisions and behavior.
We coach such people to become complete human beings.
We help people pull themselves together.

Healthy Families

Many people who say that they achieved all their goals - have very few goals!
Our changework is easier and faster than most people can imagine.
We help people manage self-sabotage that holds them back.

Your Own Personal Coach?

Are you making the world a better place?
You are part of the life of this planet, and your life is important.

Have you suffered enough?

Success and happiness require sane goals, decisions and mature relationships. There are no limits to the pleasure of good relationships ... nor to the suffering of poor decisions. Do you want to make decisions based on chance, on emotions ... or on effective coaching?
Martyn Carruthers - Founder

Note: those of us who are not medical doctors cannot
help you diagnose diseases or mental illnesses,
nor can we discuss medications.

Popular transcripts: Complex Conflict, Lost Resources

Read about emotional incesttoxic beliefs  and  false identifications

Popular relationship articles: partnershippartnership breakdownfathers and daughters, fathers and sonsmothers and sonsmothers and daughtersbrothers and sisters, parental alienationmature partnershipself esteem

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What people say about us

When I looked into Soulwork, I was qualified in several methods – and still searching for something that would challenge the deepest roots of emotional problems, instead of mostly controlling consequences. With Soulwork, I felt my search was over. Its versatility, creativity and avoiding power over clients, fit my values perfectly ... and my clients' success finally fit my hopes.
Kosjenka Muk, MA, Therapist-Trainer

Systemic Solutions is an ongoing partnership that supports lasting success. It develops leaders and helps them improve. Soulwork addresses whole people, with a balance and clarity of purpose that translates into exceptional teamwork and increased productivity ... Jan Sikorski, MSc CEO

I read your articles with skepticism, but the more I read, the more I found logic and trust. Systemic Solutions are not simple. If you want a quick fix, be a customer of pharma companies ... If you want real solutions using your intelligence and self-work, you are in the right place ...
Samuel Grznár, CEO of SG Labs, Slovakia

Soulwork can revolutionize your work. It is ideal for helping professionals - not only for coaches, trainers, therapists and doctors, but for managers, executives and CEOs. Soulwork is for people who want to achieve more than their formal education can support ... Therapist, Warsaw, Poland

Martyn's Soulwork speaks to people in pain, people who feel a deep need for personal change, people who have lost sense or lost relationships. Success is sometimes a heavy word which may feel incompatible with emotions, relationships, love, family and friends ... Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Therapist

Systemic Solutions helped us solve performance problems by managing relationships. When I saw that performance reflected our own attitudes and deficiencies, I could focus, not on individual employees, but on changing the relationships within which we work. David Willis, MSc, HR consultant

Life coaching is useful for making simple decisions in controllable environments with clear objectives and complete information. Systemic Solutions is useful for making complex decisions in difficult environments with ambiguous objectives and limited information. Martyn Carruthers, Founder

I recommend your systemic coaching to anyone considering therapy for themselves or who questions the effectiveness of their counseling. I urge helping professionals to investigate your clear, succinct and timely resolution of emotional problems ... David Marsden, MA, Therapist

I never experienced better coaching. It was life changing and I recommend Soulwork to everyone who strives to improve quality of private and business life. Stjepan Werft, MA, Consultant-Trainer

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email