Solve Emotional and Relationship Problems ☼
We help people define their goals, manage their emotions,
solve their relationship problems and enjoy their lives.
You live within relationship networks that
influence your behavior, your success and your life.
You can enjoy healthier relationships and a better life by resolving your
conflicts and changing unwanted habits.
Contact us to discover:
• Can we effectively help someone like you change?
• Can we empathize with you and understand your problems?
Do you want to end self-sabotage,
manage emotional obstacles, and
your relationships as you define, plan and accomplish your goals?
If you have unrealistic or fantasy goals, or if you expect us to do the work
we suggest that you look elsewhere.
Maturity, Integrity & Purpose
Would you like to wake up enthusiastic? Do you prefer to
feel strong? Do you want to attract and feel attracted to healthy,
mature people as you fulfill your life?
Your goals are holograms of your life - your history and your expectations, your
family and your relationships,
your emotions and your self-esteem. We can help you be stronger
and more creative in areas in which
you are already confident,
and coach you in areas where you want to gain competence.
Solve Partnership Problems
- manage relationship problems
- attract and feel attracted to healthy people
your wishes, needs and demands
- feel safe in physical and emotional intimacy
Fractals © Martyn Carruthers, 2005
Many people ask us for tips on life coaching ... yet coaching is not our goal.
Healthy families and effective teams are our goals. Happy children are our goals.
We help people manage negative emotions, gain insights and solve problems.
Many people hide or distort themselves to compensate
for relationship problems.
Even as adults, they may act childishly in their decisions and behavior.
We coach such people to become complete human beings.
We help people pull themselves together.
Many people who say that they achieved all their goals - have
very few goals!
Our changework is easier and faster than most people can imagine.
We help people manage self-sabotage that holds them back.
Are you making the world a better place?
You are part of the
life of this planet, and your life is important.
Have you suffered enough?
Success and happiness require sane
goals, decisions and mature relationships. There are no limits to the
pleasure of good relationships ... nor to the suffering of poor
decisions. Do you want to make decisions based on chance,
on emotions ... or on effective coaching?
Martyn Carruthers - Founder
Note: those of us who are not medical doctors cannot
help you diagnose diseases or mental illnesses,
nor can we discuss medications.
Popular relationship articles:
fathers and daughters,
fathers and sons,
mothers and sons,
mothers and daughters,
brothers and sisters,
Coaching, Counseling &
What people say about us
When I looked into Soulwork, I was qualified in several methods – and still
searching for something that would challenge the deepest roots of emotional problems,
instead of mostly controlling consequences. With Soulwork, I felt my search was over.
Its versatility, creativity and avoiding power over clients, fit my values
perfectly ... and my clients' success finally fit my hopes.
Kosjenka Muk, MA, Therapist-Trainer
Systemic Solutions is an ongoing partnership that supports
lasting success. It develops leaders and helps them improve. Soulwork addresses
whole people, with a balance and clarity of purpose that translates into
exceptional teamwork and increased productivity
... Jan Sikorski, MSc CEO
I read your articles with skepticism, but
the more I read, the more I found logic and trust. Systemic Solutions are not
simple. If you want a quick fix, be a customer of pharma companies ... If you
want real solutions using your intelligence and self-work, you are in the right
Samuel Grznár, CEO of SG Labs, Slovakia
Soulwork can revolutionize your work. It is ideal for helping
professionals - not only for coaches, trainers, therapists and doctors, but for
managers, executives and CEOs. Soulwork is for people who want to achieve more than
their formal education can support ... Therapist, Warsaw, Poland
Martyn's Soulwork speaks to people in pain, people who
feel a deep need for personal change, people who have lost sense or lost
relationships. Success is sometimes a heavy word which may feel incompatible
with emotions, relationships, love, family and friends ...
Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Therapist
Systemic Solutions helped us solve
performance problems by managing relationships. When I saw that performance
reflected our own attitudes and deficiencies, I could focus, not on individual
employees, but on changing the relationships within which we work. David Willis,
MSc, HR consultant
Life coaching is useful
for making simple decisions in controllable environments with clear objectives
and complete information. Systemic Solutions is useful for making complex
decisions in difficult environments with ambiguous objectives and limited
information. Martyn Carruthers, Founder
I recommend your systemic coaching to anyone considering therapy for
who questions the effectiveness of their counseling. I urge helping
professionals to investigate your clear, succinct and timely resolution of
emotional problems ... David Marsden, MA, Therapist
I never experienced
better coaching. It was life changing and I recommend Soulwork to everyone
who strives to improve quality of private and business life. Stjepan Werft,
Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy
We do not represent any old age, new age, religious,
social or political
groups, nor any businesses, religions or cults! We are a non-prophet organization.